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Is not dating normal?
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I am a 20 year old male, and I feel like a huge loser 24/7 because I don't date. Its not that I don't want to, its because I rarely meet new girls, and the girls I already know, I am not interested in. I really want to date, and it drives me crazy that I have no one to ask out on a date. So my question is, how many other guys/girls are in this same situation? Or do some of you not date for other reasons? Is it normal to be stuck in this situation?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (9)
bigguy8523 (23589)
2009-05-31 02:01:31
hey man don't let it get ya down i feel ya i live in a small town so i know all the girls and it makes it tough but just find a mall and go shopping that's were all the girls are most of the time
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adgjmptw (15845)
2009-05-31 21:09:24
same here dude...if u find any solution tell me...
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Solimorphic (20553)
2009-06-03 16:50:36
At 20, there are girls EVERYWHERE!! Not normal at that age.

At 19, I got a summer job at a busy Wendy's at night and Arthur Treachers during the day.Got shotload of dates. Went to pot parties, had overnight fukks, you name it.

You have to go where they are. It's that simple.

Now I still do volunteer work, etc.
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CodePheonixstar (24083)
2009-06-10 12:56:00
e-dating is getting more popular..
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smeagolxx (24102)
2009-06-24 16:37:49
i'm a guy, 28, never been on a date

i think normal = having or searching for a partner = dating

but guys like us are definitely out there in huge numbers, for one reason or another, nothing ever happened for us in that department

and so it goes and so it ends, we live alone, we die alone, some of us were just destined to walk a lonely path
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Chonga (24243)
2009-07-02 04:02:19
I'm in the same boat mate,weird eh?
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Anonymous
2009-07-10 15:00:00
I don't think dating is as popular as it used to be, at least not at first. I'm a 22 year old female and when I like a guy I usually meet him through a mutual friend or something, and it's mainly hanging out or talking without the formal ties of going on a "date." I see dating as something more to do once you are involved in a relationship, like someone mentioned above.

On the other hand, if you would like to date more, it could be the region you live in. Maybe you are not surrounded by people who you are motivated to date in the first place. At this time this is true of me too.
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firesonicx (26276)
2009-07-29 08:06:43
same boat, I'm 15 and I'm afraid that it will happen to me. idk commitment naturally scares me and i just realized it was because I'm seeking approval from my dad. wow, huh?
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purple12345 (27977)
2009-10-05 22:16:28
soooo im an 18 year old girl. i think its pretty normal. i mean yea there are tons of guy f*cking every girl they come across and it that goes the other way around too. but sometimes, the right person or the right time just isnt there. now if your problem is that you cant meet new girls, go to a party, find a new job there are tons of ways to meet new girls. if u really want a date trust me ull make sure you get one =)
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