Is this guy's methods for picking up girls normal?

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Younger people don't necessarily understand relationships yet so they are easily manipulated. That doesn't mean you should manipulate them. Let them grow and learn without regrets please.

It's not that they're dumb, it's that he's more experienced than them.

he is right that they probably won't catch on to his game as quickly as girls his age, but that DOES NOT mean he should be acting like that and going for girls so much younger. I would say he is an asshole, and that a lot of older guys do this!

Eh, I've seen it.
In my neighborhood, I have seen a lot of girls go for older guys because they have a car, a job, their own place and money. They seem to gain a lot of personal merit when they are with someone that they can screw without their Mom walking in on them, I guess.

Although my friends are the same kind of dumb shits that will brag to all high heavens if they are able to snag a dude with anything more than a criminal conviction to his name. Maybe he's doing what the men who wanted cheap tail in my neighborhood would do too. Made possible because the girls think "OMG oldr men are so much more maturrr ad they kno how to treat REAL woman liek me!".

Beg him not to breed.

I think this is true, and I think alot of boys do this as they think younger girls wont suss out how much of an asshole they really are, the guy will act all nice and do all the usual tricks to win the girl over and younger girls will think they are 'in love' alot easier as they havent really experienced much before I guess. The guys just using them though, its all a game to the guy. My ex does this every time we broke up because girls his age or my age no what hes like and wouldnt be stupid enough to fall for him. Were as younger girls will be like oh hes older and has his own place we can have partys there ect. SO DUMB! I feel for this at 16 with that guy, I am now 19 and he is 23, and he will still pick up 16/17 yr olds It grosses me out. I feel sorry for any young girl that guys do this to.

I'm going to say normal. Younger people are easier to manipulate.

Honestly, I think he is exaggerating. There are a select few that really are gullible and easy to manipulate. Most girls understand that ultimately boys/men want the pussy. They choose the older ones because they gots $$$.

"He told me that he hits on young girls because they are too dumb to know that he's playing them and girls his own age would be on to his game in minutes"


I do this too, so i think it's normal. But older women aren't a whole lot smarter when it comes to this stuff. A woman just assumes your good nature when you simply act that way, so it's not hard to trick them. I've left many broken hearts and faces in my time already.

the boy takes the money from the old lady at the post office , she wants to send it to her grandaughter, he will help,he will lick the stamp and post it. she goes home happy at the kindness of youth, he goes and puts it with the rest

It isn't normal to target people whom you -- the generic "you," not the original poster -- hold in contempt as too stupid to know better than to run away from your predatory ass. That's really loathsome behavior. What a revolting creeper he is! Date rapist in the making, if you ask me.

OP, be very glad that you aren't his type.

Its like taking candy from a baby, he found the babys now he just needs the candy. This is excactly what he is doing.

this guy probably has no true self-confidence and/or respect for himself. he feels that being a manslut with younger girls is the only way he will be able to "connect" with someone. obviously he doesn't want a real connection because he can't even understand himself. he has low self-esteem in his techniques.
it's normal, for an undetermined douchebag.

Younger girls are HARDER to get. They are usually only into teen stuff like music which an older man like me can't relate to.