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I was wondering if it is normal for my boyfriend to not want sex sometimes. For example, sometimes I will touch him or I will take my shirt of and ask him if he wants to get down and have sex, but sometimes he says he is " not in the mood". I thought only women did this when they wanted to get out of sex, I just don't understand because it's not like I'm ugly or fat, so is it him or is it me?
Do you think it's normal?
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littleloulou (25173)
2009-07-07 17:05:50
Some guys just have a low sex drive. Personally, I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Confront him about it. Tell him about your concerns.
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MisterMo (25434)
2009-07-12 08:24:11
If it happens too often for what you can stand, like Littleloulou stated, talk with him. If his reasons are temporary, then there might be the a light for you, if his reasons seem to be how he is, it might be better to start to get ready to move on.

To me is a priority that my partner and I have relatively the same sex drive, as if it's not, you increase the chances that one of the partners eventually go see elsewhere.
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anabolic19 (25748)
2009-07-18 19:52:50
well it is normal for a man to not want to have sex somtimes but come on you touch him and he says hes not in the mood thats a bit weird
but im a freak im always pestering my gf for sex

maybe hes afraid he cant pleasure you or he might be worried about coming to quick or maybe hes secrety gay?
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Galaxy500 (24989)
2009-07-21 07:55:08
maybe he's not that happy with you and won't say anything about it. Some guys are asses like that...you could have a perfect day together and if, even for a brief moment, you say or do something or deny him in any way or make a harmless joke at his expense he'll hold onto that and use it against you later i.e. choose to "not be in the mood". Then again, you could have him take this stuff called "Steel Libido" that you can get at any vitamin store and it will boost up his testosterone levels and make him more horny.
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robotdude (25860)
2009-07-21 08:14:43
unfortunately, he is still not sure if hes gay or not.
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odd1out (26252)
2009-07-28 19:34:15
That is strange. He should see a doctor
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WayOutThere (27021)
2009-08-13 09:51:19
This is normal to happen *sometimes,* and can be caused by any number of reasons, mainly on his part, but possibly also on your part. If it happens too frequently for your liking, discuss it with him.
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justmetalking (29624)
2009-10-10 14:19:16
Someone said 90% of sex is mental. To really enjoy it you need to be in the right frame of mind. That being said, if my girlfriend was horny and wanted to have sex, I would take care of her and she would do the same for me. Sex is a biological function and we all have needs both emotional and physical. When you love someone, you do your best to take care of those needs whether you "feel like it" or not. Doing otherwise is just being selfish. This applies to both partners not just men.
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cucui (30591)
2009-11-01 13:53:57
Are you like super horny?Because if you are maybe he just feels a bit...overwhelmed? If not then take his word for it he just doesnt wanna
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cucui (30591)
2009-11-01 13:54:50
@: cucui
like the piercing by the way
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