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Is this normal to have these feeling toward my bff? - Please help
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I have become very close to my bff over the past 2 years and I think I am in love with her.I have never felt these strong feelings like this about a girl before,may I add im a girl too.I find myself fantasizing about her in a dirty way at night.

We are extremely close,we are always doing crazy thinks like bitting and liking each other and people think we are lesbians.We have had those moments when you play around with each other laughing and then suddenly you stop and stare at each others eyes,just inches away from each other lips like your going to kiss.She has had a lesbian past if it helps.I think we feel the same way about each other but to scared to admitt it.

Its got so bad that I get jealious when she even talks to any other girl and im losing her because of this.Am I a lesbian or is it normal to feel like this about my bff.Please help im so scared and insecure right now and im to ashamed to talk about it to anyone.
Do you think it's normal?
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Shifter (30459)
2009-11-07 15:54:22
Many people get confused about their sexuality sometime or another in their lives, some people also experiment with the opposite sex and then they go on to lead 'normal' man and wife marriages. Others have sexual experiences and learn that they are more attracted to the same sex. Although people have sexual 'preferences' I honestly don't think sexuality exists, maybe that makes me sound like a nutter, but what I mean is, at the end of the day when you fall inlove with someone and all that bollocks, whether they are a boy or a girl, seizes to matter.

So stop focosing on the fact your friend is a girl and just ask yourself, do you really like this person? And if so...go for it.
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lotusgirl (30659)
2009-11-07 19:35:31
i think you should tell her how you feel and just kiss and make out with her
and if she doesn't want to be your bff after that...shes not a true friend
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-11-08 03:46:34
Its really up to you whether you take the next step sexually but you obviously have strong romantic feelings for her. I think you should tell her cause she feels the same way too, apparently. If you don't acknowledge how both of you feel, you could lose each other as friends, whatever you would have decided to do as a couple.
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