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It's arousing to me to think about my wife with other men
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And to know she desires other men sexually. A small part of my fantasy is to watch/join her with another man but I'm really more turned on just knowing she wants another man/men. We've purchased a few of those life-like realistic dildos that are my size and slightly larger which she's named individually. Occasionally after we make love she'll ask me; "is it OK if ____ comes over tonight?" This is my cue to get out which ever dildo she asks for (sometimes more than one) and bring her to a few more very intense orgasms as she calls out his name. We've talked about it some but she hasn't shown any interest in a real meeting with another guy. I'm not sure how I would feel if it happened in real life and not sure i'm ready for it anyway. I'm concerned that this is abnormal. So far it's remained in the fantasy world and is fun and brings us both pleasure. I only worry that it will progress into something more over time and we'll do something one or both of us will regret after. Any thoughts or do other men/women share this interest?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (9)
Kaos_Comments (23924)
2009-06-08 16:41:31
Go to a swingers party! They are full of nothing but couples that share the same desires. :) It's perfectly healthy, and normal. It's just not for everyone, and thats okay.
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BigRedOne (22853)
2009-06-09 06:11:28
Let me know when 1-800-johnson
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got_the_tee_shirt_and_scars (24038)
2009-06-09 16:52:05
It's nice to have fantasies, but your concern about whether something could happen is well-placed. No sense in looking for trouble.
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jackryan (24087)
2009-06-10 14:32:52
@: Kaos_Comments
my college girlfriend was pretty adventurous when it came to sex. she brought up the idea to check out a swinger party so we could watch other people doing it. we found a party hosted at a house and spent a few hours drinking, socializing, and just taking in the scene. she was talking to this one guy for most of the time and ended up going out to the pool with him for a little skinny dipping. I went out to look for her later on and found her by the pool on all fours being tag teamed by two guys. several other guys were standing around with hard-ons watching. it was weird but I was totally turned on and watched her do several more dudes in various positions. after we left she told me that she was drunk and was sorry to have done it but i said it was ok and that i kind of thought it was hot. we broke up a few months later so we never got to do anything again
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crazyd00d (24749)
2009-06-27 22:46:05
weird
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Zedhunter (25740)
2009-07-18 13:14:13
Trust me, it's normal in full, it just means you have a fetish about that. I'd look up the name for you, but I'm not sure where I'd go about doing that. Everyone has those, so congratulations, you're normal.
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petitlutin (26122)
2009-07-26 13:50:00
It's normal to fantasize about it. I don't think doing it is actually the right thing to do for most couples, though. For some, maybe.

As a fantasy, it is f**king hot. Turns both of us on a lot. I think it's normal to feel excited watching our mate get f**ked because it's hardwired as a trait from our animal past. Gets me cumming twice as much in her too...
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peepeye (17025)
2009-08-05 12:39:02
Hell yes its OK & whats your address, Again?
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magsstaff (27999)
2009-09-02 18:08:58
Ive had threesomes with my wife and her best friend, a woman. Later I shared her with a guy we knew that she wanted to f###. I suggest if you share your wife with another man to go with a couple because a single man will try to keep having sex with your wife when youre not around.

Thats what happened to me, she slept with that guy for 2 months after our threesome and we almost split up because of it. But everything is fine now.
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