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Sounds like she might be looking to fuck your husband yes. That doesnt mean he wants to fuck her but you never know. Remember the postman always rings twice

he may not be fucking her now, but if you and your husband ever have any problems, chances are good that he will fall into her arms.

what you should do is become friends with her and fix her up with someone.

Also, fuck the shit out of your husband as often as possible, preferably right before he goes to work.

also, your life sounds like an episode from "king of queens", so im assuming this is a fake post.

Well obviously they have gotten to know each other on a more personal level, so I do believe that the thought of "having" her is definitely in his mind. I would be weary of this woman and question him on his knowledge of her past.

That is what I feared. I mean I honestly know everyone has crushes. And it's one things to look and feel things. But in my book it's a whole other thing to act upon them. I am just worried because we have been married for almost seven years now, and while things haven't always gone good in the past..it seemed like they were just going good.
But when he brings up things like that, it honestly crushes me. It makes me feel like we are falling right back into that rut again. I couldn't imagine things going bad again, it would ruin our marriage. Our child is six and I really am trying to hold it together for him as well, but I can't handle the relationship he has with her. Am I wrong??
So too much personal information that he knows isn't normal when you're married...correct?? I think the worst part of all of this is she tries to act like she's my friend also, but then she doesn't call me to talk, she calls him. UGH!!
(And P.S. this is my life, this is real as real gets.)

I am grateful for the reply. Thank you. But just to let you know. This is my life, it's real as real gets.
I have never been close enough to people or trusting enough to talk to about my relationship. So I came here when I had nowhere else to go.
Again- thank you for the reply. While it hurts to know that I should listen to my instinct and trust myself, it's hard to believe it. I just don't want to end up getting hurt : (.

look, it isn't at all definite that he's cheating on you. Also keep in mind that people here have NO IDEA about the relationship between you and your husband. They just know what you are telling them, and they are seeing it through your eyes.

But no matter what the case is or may be, I stand by my advice to you to fuck the daylights out of him each and every morning right before he goes to work. I mean it. Men have two states - loaded, and unloaded. Make sure he's unloaded before he goes off to work.

When I usually know this type of information its because I'm f**king the chick...but I guess they could just be really good friends. Is he still giving it up to you? If so, don't worry about it.

Don't listen to homer. HE Is a mean asshole who nobody likes and from his posts you can see why.

Chances are, he knows that information about her because she likes him and wants to be with him. That doesn't meant that he likes her to. Just remember that you guys have been married for seven years. you chose to love and cherish each other intill death do you part. You are the beautiful girl he is in love with, not her. The key to a successful marriage is open and honest communication. Talk to your husband about how you feel and tell him that the fact he knows personal information about this girl crushes you.

Hope this helps, take care and best wishes
Cassie

When I usually know this type of information its because I'm f**king the chick...but I guess they could just be really good friends. Is he still giving it up to you? If so, don't worry about it.


Is he still giving it up to you?

Yeah he is. I had a time where I was saying no for a while,(while being a few years due to hormonal issues) but now we are back in the swing of things.

Thank you for all your comments. Just recently, I don't know what the deal is. Almost sounds as if my husband is jealous because this girl keeps talking about her ex-boyfriend ALL THE TIME...but he just said he doesn't care if she's around or not. He said he feels used because it's like he's the only man in her life. (I don't know what that means) He said that he feels used by her. And I asked him why he felt that way, and he said by being used by his cars and other things. (We were going to help her move and use our truck) When I asked what that meant, because she hasn't used our cars before or anything, he told me I wouldn't understand, then changed the subject. I don't know what it means. All I know is that at the moment he is jealous or upset at her, so she is not the number one person in his life right now. Thank God!!! I don't think I could take it much longer...because honestly, if it wasn't for this issue, I could see the two of us being really good friends. Problem is....if there is that attraction, I don't want to invite it into my home. UGH!!!!

yeah homers posted here, but I just hid the comment. It wasn't an appropriate comment. It was more hurtful than helpful. And that is why I came here...for help.

I know how many girls a lot of my male close friends and female close friends have slept with...
Means nothing.

Yall better talk to that dude

Meh I wouldn't worry about it. It could be what you're worried about such as a discreet affair or something but it could also be her having the mindset of "one of the guys" and he just gets along really well with her. I know a girl and I know just about everything about her. Including all past current and possible boyfriends who she could sleep with. However i am still loyal to my girlfriend and I just see her as just another guy I hang out with and can just talk shit with.

is she ugly?, if shes one of the guys then he doesnt want to fuck her, if shes not then maybe he does. If shes ugly then no he wont fuck her.

My oppinion isthat you have a little talk with your husband, and dont put too much pressure on his, dont just put him on the spot " are you having a relationship behind my back!?" just take it slow, maybe talk with the girl herself for a bit ? get to know her a little better. Maybe she is just the type of person who tells everybody everything and doesnt think anything of it.
Lets hope thats the case.

I've been friends with a girl that had no sexual interest in me (I barked up that tree) but told me every little thing about her and her experiences. She slept with 9 people at the time, and tells me about every one as it happens. She is up to 13 now. One abortion. At any rate, it is possible that she is just really open and talkative. My friend considers me a "brother." Who knows, though.

Sounds like he is porking her.