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Okay, so I was nine days late for my period after the first time I had sex which was last month. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative and then shortly after that I had my period.
I was just wondering if that happened to anyone else? It did a lot of my friends. Does your first time make you late? I'd really like some feedback.

Thank you. =]
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Hi Friends,

Okay, So past few days i am having sleepless nights.

I have a GF she is 25, She was suppose to have her MENSES on 18th April. But till date (11th May 2011)she had not got her periods.

We have been very sexually active over last 1 month, And it was just very intense foreplay. We did not had a fu*k session till date, I suspect she might have used the same hand to clean her vagina after giving me a masturbation session to me.

I did ask her to take M P Forte pill. She had been taking this pills from last 2 days (10 & 11 May) tomorrow would be her 3rd day in course of this medication. I Did ask her to take a pregnancy test using "Veloict" Kit but she is very worried and denies to take that test.

I was just worried and wanted to know that, WITH IN HOW MANY DAYS WOULD SHE GET HER PERIODS AFTER COMPLETING COURSE OF MP FORTE. Also wanted to know whether IS IT POSSIBLE TO GET PREGNANT BY JUST TOUCHING HER VAGINA WITH THE SAME THAT SHE MASTURBATED ME.

I request all the readers to please reply on my queries..
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@: ryanz
i like ur comment it helped alot!! ;p
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@: ryanz
Thanks. i think you helped me...you see i had sex on the 21 i get my perido the beinging of the next month and i think im getting it by the end of this week or so. but i think im late. but thank you i think i'll be getting it. but should i take a pregancy test anyway to see just incase?
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DgM
hey..i indulged in anal sex wi my bf on the 6th n 7th..he ws completely dry n he dint cum on me..bt i wz supposed 2 get my chums on the 9th..n nw im 2 weeks l8 n shit scared..i took a test n it tested negative..bt hw mch longer shud i wait b4 goin 2 the doc??any chances of pregnancy??
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I am one day late and have taken like 5 tests and one at the doctor. I am really stressed about it and haven't been eating much. I don't even feel like i'm going to start. Any one else experienced this?
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@: ahall46
Yea well I am only one day late and I am
So worried..
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My gf 2 weeks late period after we had sex. anyone here now what to do to make here period normal again?????????

please make a fast reply..............
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OMG!
All you people do not know how much this has helped me and my girlfriend!
We have had 2 big scares and YES we used protection*
But I always tolled her that if she stresses out a lot your piriod will come a little bit late, even more if it's your first time!!!

but really this has made my day

Thank you all
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Personally, yeah, I've been there. Periods 10-17 days apart. It's really not fun.

I'd guess the reason that you had a late period was because of the heightened hormone levels involved during sex. Since it was your first time, you had never had that kind of hormonal stress on your body, so the way it coped with it was to delay the period.

Just use protection for any future encounters, and you will be okay, as long as you are protected against pregnancy and STDs. Same old sermon - Abstinence is best, but at least use a condom.
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hey ,
umm jus wondering cud my gf be pregnant. about 13 days after her last period, we tried to have anal but i did not go in...im pretty sure any precum DIDnt touch her vagina when we tried that....and and about 10 days later, we had sex with protection (condom).. she is now 3 days late for her period so should we be worried about her getting pregnant?? please help:) any similar experiences would be much appreciated. thanks
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Okay, I had sex the 21 of augest i was suppose to get my period by this week or the end of this week. which todays date is the 4th...not remembering when the last i had my period all i know is that i have my sympotoms for my period also. i know i had it at the beinging of the month and such. will my period be delayed?
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ok so basically im really worried um about TWO WEEKS give or take one day.... my girlfriend has been late on her period. she doesn't want to get a test until a week, she is against abortion and i am very very worried. we used protection, once i came even tho i was still hard i pulled out. we had sex twice that day the same case. she was supposed to start her period on the 18th we had sex on the 17th and its now the 31...
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yeah, if you freak out about it, or obsess over it, as tends to happen after your first time, you'll be late.
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u were probably scared that u were gona get pregnat lol ... and that caused stress which caused ur period to be late ... and i would worry more about stds then pregnecy
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violent10dency
You can get pregnant while on your period,after your period,in-between periods,some woman ovulate all the time. You can get pregnant by using a condom,it can tear,fall off etc etc. You can even get pregnant on birth control,and even if the guy pulls out,I did. You missing your period,may not have had anything to do with you having sex,it could have been stress. I highly suggest you get on birth control,and always,always use a condom.

-dirt dobbler
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if you are under 17, and not on the pill... then yes, you will be off on days every once and awhile.
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shitshitshit
yeah this perfectly normal. flows are kinda abnormal for the first , well, up too the first year or so.
dont sweat it!
:)
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so are you saying i should get on the pill? will it help with my flow? i had first time the 21 now the 3rd, or 4th but i should be expecting mother nature the begigin of this week or the end. but idk if im late or not. i dont mark these things down.
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My first time was brilliant and I didn't have a period at all afterwards....mind you I am a man.
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i think its normal. cus after i started having sex my period has been late ever since. i guess it just depends who you are. but it can't be good, if it continues you should go get it checked.
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I'm Worried About Something Like This Two I Had Sex For The First Time 8 days ago with my boyfriend of 3 years and my period is three days late should I be worried ! I know your not suppose to be worried because it delays your period but I'm so scared
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true. but semen only lives 3 days atm the most. ummm, please tell me women can't have periods 10 days apart.

0.o
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Not really, I was 16 days late last month after sex with my bf.

Its depends on yoru stress levels and your food consumption. worry too much and eating too little causes uneven periods.
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The same thing is happening to me right now. Until I found this and something similar on Yahoo Answers, I was worried soo much. It's only a few days late, and the sex was 8 days ago (4/22).
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I first had sex with my bf last year and we are now a year and a half steady, since we first had sex my periods have been late every month...and each time i worry about gettin pregnant :/
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ok so i'm going through da same exact thing.
i'm 18, it was my first time last month, 5 days after da previuos period....we have done it 12 times over da last few wks n every time we have used a condom!... um n he pulls out rite before he comes......

n counting today is 3 days late =( ugh i'm freaking out!!!!
2 of my friends had da same situtation n both took prego test n came out negative.
dey say is just da nervous but i'm not so sure.
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Frx
i'm a bit relieved. i just hope that i have the same case as her..
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Stargirl, many would say that what you said about your grandmother is nasty, but I happen to like bloody cat, and catch up on my red wings as often as I can.
As far as a period being late or early, many factors affect this, so do not worry about it.
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BTW, how old r u? 17?
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u could be late but if u so worried just get a doctor appointment!!
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don't worry it happened to me too. after my first period i was 2 weeks late! it takes time for your body to adjust to your menstural cycle!
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violent10dency
oh yea,I forgot to mention something,when it comes to pregnancy tests,there can be a wrong negative,but never a wrong positive,I was pregnant for 4 months until my pregnancy tests came up positive.might have been because i was using the cheap brand preg tests i dunno,good luck.
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Me and my bf had sex and I had my period 23 days later and this month I'm a week late I skipped a month does that mean I'm pregnant ? Oh and we used protection but he didn't finish in me he pulled out in time
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me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and i was supposed to get my period about two days ago. im really worried. is it normal for your period to be late after your first time?
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I'm really worried, I had protected sex on 23rd December first time, a few days after my period I should have come on yesterday 9th Jan. but I haven't, I've been really stressed out this week due to other things but I've had stomach pains but usually my periods are very regular. Are they normally out by a few days after your first time?
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I'm almost 18 and it was my first time with someone I love and whom I've been dating for a year and was in for leave.
I believe it was right.

& we used a condum, I suppose I should have mentioned that first.
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@: Breezy
condoms arnt 100%% safe, no matter how much the crazy people in the add tell you.
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I don't know. my first time was with my best friend for whom was also it was also a first time. she had a normal period. jst so you know, but not to encourage unprotected sex: if you have sex up to 10 days after your period you won't get pregnant. 13 days with some women.
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that happened to me and i was freaking out! my periods were usually a little off but not that much... well just as long as u had ur period and the test said neg. you should be good
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You know what I was wondering?

If you make the guy wear, like, five condoms it would significantly reduce the risk of getting pregnant...so why don't people do that?
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No. You're not supposed to layer them. It gives it more friction because there is less moving room and it could break. You wear one and use it right.
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try getting them on and keeping them all on. Plus that could be pretty damn constricting
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Thought so.

Just one of those naive moments pour moi. Love 'em.
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your pregnatn
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