im a 23 yo female and ive never had a problem with gay people. I have even always been really supportive of them by going to protests for same sex marriage and even worked with other ppl on getting a clause written in my high school's rules that you cant discriminate based on sexual orientation. but recently ive been really disgusted by the idea of two women 2gether. This butch lesbian lady i know touched my shoulder to whisper something in my ear (nothing sexual, she was just telling me somehting) and i started to gag and could even kind of taste vomit at the back of my throat. I am so ashamed by my feelings. I dont have a problem w gay guys and the idea actually kind of turns me on bc i like it up the ass 2. i dont know if other people have these feelings...or if im a lesbiophobe.
you would want the manly person, and thats normal, so if she wants a specific lesbian, then thats normal
with that in mind what about femminine men?
do you find it disgusting when a guy is a sissy?
i hate ideals like that
there is no written rule or law saying women can not be butch and men can not be sissies
It's like the difference between an arachnophobe who tries to avoid spiders and be tolerant of them, and one who tries to kill them all. You can't help your feelings - so what if you're phobic? The point is that you're still a decent person to them. And that's what counts.
you arnt no better then nobody else
But maybe you are just stuck on the idea that this butch type was coming on to you and you didn't like it - when she Might have just been being nice.
That does not sound right.