Long Distance Relationship.

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I'm kinda dubious about that kinda relationship, but if you meet each other soon it could work. Do you know what she looks like and all?

Just to put it in perspective buddy, i met my current partner online, much the same as you we met on a game, spoke for months finally met and well we have been married 6 years and have 3 kids.. so it is normal..just arrange the meeting soon before you run out of things to talk about,

Trust me it can work. I know someone who made it work, for real. On the other hand it could be the stuff of Napoleon Dynamite (Kip and Lafonda) and then you're definately screwed. Just try not to be fake and be yourself, if it doesn't work then it's obviously because she'd rather have me.

One more thing, if you've not met her yet how certain are you that she is actually a she and not a he ?

Maybe you have to meet up first. :)

then decide.

I'm in a long distance relationship too. I really do love him, so yeah it's possible that it will work out and I hope it does. Good luck!

probably she was doing the same thing to hundreds of people.

Well it is a relief to listen that this "relationships do work". I moved to the USA a few months ago, and I met an English man online. We have been IM for days and days, even 5 hours daily. We really feel there is a connection. We haven't been able to meet yet, but he plans to come to USA when he gets vacations (in almost 4 and half months). So I really hope this can work out. First, I did not believe this could happen or be real, but as time has gone by I feel the realationship has grown stronger. So I really wish things work out for you too.

I had a 5-month online relationship with someone before. We stopped it, though, because we knew we would never meet in real life.

If you can meet in real life though, go for it man.

i think that it can work out i really do and well also that you two need to get to meat each other.. i have loved someone that lived in cali that i never meat it can work out just give it more time cuz 6 months is a lil to say i love u... but you two should somehow meat each other two see if its real love you know what i mean

What if she's a man???

yea totally

yeah im pretty sure he'd know if the girl he was talking to over the phone was really a man or not. But otherwise, you should force a meeting (her coming to meet you, or at least her coming to meet you halfway) and see if you can take the relationship farther.

Long distancing has the nasty nasty habit of investing tremendous time and effort into a relationship and then having it all swept away in a moment of thoughtless and cruel passion.

If you've taken 6 months out of your short short life on this girl, then she obviously has a great degree of your love. Lots of couples make the long distance relationship work, but meeting in between is essential. You should see if you two can meet and make it work.

btw: you've known her for 6 months and you've never seen a photo or clip of her? that's fucking weird dude. I'd definitely get that sorted out before trying to meet her.

ugh.. I really hope it works for you if you're 100%% sure of her love.

I've been in an online relationship too.. We were just net friends for like 2 years and then I knew he loved me and same i did. We were together for 4 months and then I ended it cause my family didn't agree cause of "Cultural Differences" :(
2 Years passed and I still can't get over him.

Don't lose her if you really feel that she's the one. Goodluck!

its not normal, she migth be a man and the man
migth be gay

Yes, its normal because Ive been in a long distant relationship for 2 years now and we never seen each other. We say we love each other. Its been a great 2 years too. Im graduating this year and we plan on seeing each other. Its the best relationship ever. He's my everything and I wouldnt trade him for nothing in this world. We made it work and we are still making it. So, I believe that you two can make it work. Take it from me by experience...Its possible. Believe it or not