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I met my girlfriend 4 years ago, we were 16 and we've been together for two years before i left my country, i was so in love with her, i felt like i want to spend my whole life with her but now, we havent seen each other for two years.to be honest, its really hard to keep this relationship going on as my feelings are never the same as before. i do not know how to end it up, i would feel so guilty if i dump her just like that, she is still looking forward to us being together (forever) it sounds so gay. besides that, i met this girl again after a couple of years (which happened to be my first love), the moment i saw her again, all my feelings came back and i am so in love with her (and still in love), she's in another state and i visit her often, we date, kissed, made love. etc. like what 'in-love' people does. but she doesnt want to commit to me. she even says its irrational to have a relationship with a girl, and it doesnt make any sense. but you see, she makes love to me. i dont understand. i think about her everyday, a message from her in the morning just makes my day. i always think about her sweet kisses, soft and subtle lips... but it hurts me, she rejects and ignore me half the time.

it really confuses me.

any advise?
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Comments (6)
duckfart77 (18930)
2008-12-31 02:23:06
A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush. And where does the bisexuality part of your title come into play? Do what you want to do, but when you find someone who you love and loves you you need to hold onto it, my personal opinion.
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dreamy740 (18718)
2009-01-05 14:35:11
wheres the bisexual part?
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almostnormal (20015)
2009-02-06 12:04:19
im guessing your a girl?
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bubblegum (21146)
2009-03-21 12:57:17
@: almostnormal
duur shes a girl, god ..silly people lol

eerm well i think, having sex with her, is only going to hurt you more, its hard and trust me, itl hurt like hell, but you should try and get over her. And having a sexual relationship with her wont make it any better. maybe by ignoring her, itl make her realize how much she wants you?
and as for your actual gf, you should be open with her, it really isnt fair on her, slightley mean actually
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oskilover18 (22167)
2009-04-20 19:06:40
awww... it sounds like the girl you're in love with is in denial about her sexuality or semi-self hating for it. That sucks. I'd say break up with your girlfriend, it's so not cool to cheat, and look for someone to love who will be open with and love you back all the way.
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tormentingambitions (22376)
2009-04-26 16:24:10
You probably want this new girl only because she is rejecting you. People don't usually go for what can easily be accessed or granted. Men are mostly like that too. If you're sleeping with someone new, you really need to let your old girlfriend back home know. You are betraying her this way and letting her live on false hopes! Sleeping with someone doesn't usually mean commitment and this is where things can get sticky. The old girlfriend you have recently hooked up with again could be just in it for the sex. I'm the same way with my ex. We got engaged, were supposed to get married, but we ended up really hurting each other and breaking up. Today, we have gone our separate ways and on no mental level do we ever connect, but we're still sexually attracted to one another.
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