I have quite long inner vaginal lips than protrude. This worries me, in terms of what men must think, and I don't know whether I should be worried or not.
A lot of posts on this topic seem to be appearing as of late.
Here is a link to a place in New York City that provides such services. You may get something out of it by just browsing their site to learn more. Personally, it is a non-issue with me and likely with most men.
Hey,
you'd be considered lucky in some tribes in Africa.
Girls are supposed to have long labial lips.
And they do all sorts of things to have them.
Mostly, mechanically.
Its believed they make child birth easier, and the sex greater.
Is that true in your case?
yes hunn it's normal. i got them too (hate to admit that online) lol....but yeah my ex boyfriend used to make fun of me for it and that went on for almost 3 years before i finaly had enough of him.
anyways back to the subject it is perfectly normal and infact it's what your supposed to have. if you dont like them or if you dont feel right with them go talk to your doctor about it and see if there's anything you can have done about it.
i have long vaginal lips as well.
i hate it!
it can feel weird sometimes when i walk... do any of you get like that?
and i fold them in...
i hate it.
i feel like a freak.
as for boyfriends! OMG. i'm so scared.
no joke.
and anyone know dane cook?
he made fun of us on stage saying he hates long lips and they're like a high school curtain where you can't find the entrance (which is funny) but still :(
has anyone had the surgery done? please comment! xo
no its not different when you have sex i have a great sex life and i also have longer vaginal lips. no guys ever complained i've actually gotten quite the opposite it actually keeps it more.. moist
i used to be nervous then i just decided whatever its my body im fine with it and i think i look good so who cares
It's perfectly normal. Like grizzlygirl, hate to admit it online, but I've got them too.
If it makes you feel better think of it this way...guys have a problem with the size of their penises. I've been asked how big is too big and if I like small and a dozen other questions all related to size. Me, personally, I don't have a preference or at least if I do I haven't found it. Some women prefer big some prefer small, long, short, etc.
So when it comes to what men might think...it all depends on the man since it's all about personal preference. Just ignore the ***holes.
One man's trash is another man's treasure. The world is full of many body types. The only differences are the opinions of others. Why some women have longer lips than others is all in their genes.Unless a person modifies them either by surgery or any other form of body modification. Some people will find something to criticize you about, be yourself and enjoy it, if you don't like something do something about it, if you can't do anything about it, then lifes a b**ch, you gotta deal.
Should you be worried? If I was your bf, No. But someone that can be judgemental. Yes.
sparklingdiamond....i have the same thing..where one is alot longer than the other...and its soo embarrassing..its probabgly one of teh biggest resons it takes me forver to pull my pants down even thou i would really want too..but guys in teh past never said anything or lookk horrifiedd...so i guess its normall..but its still scary for me
Once I heard a talk between two guys hangin in a bar, they were about 30-35 years old, one of them was sharing his experience with such a girl and he was like: "omg, it was so fleshy, I jerked off only touchin it..."
omg heysister, i have that to.
it makes me so self consious. i never let my boyfriend go down my pants bc i really like him and im scared he will be like wtf you freak. i always go down his before he can go down mine=
i just had my mom make a gyno app for me but i didnt tell her why bc i was embaressed, i hope the doctor does something about it!
hello,,
okay i have it to. i dont like it, next time i go to my othadonist for birth control im going to ask my doctor about it because she has to look there anyways and i'm embberst to just let her see it. and i dont know why im on birth control because im scared to have sex with it anyways! or to even let the guy go down my pants. but as soon as i get options that wont hurt you i will putt it up here=]
I was embarrassed when I was younger about my lips as well. They protrude, and hang down and my cl*toris is huge. I was so scared about showing any guys, but I was curious and tried anyway, very nervously.
The result; if the guy is judgmental; f**k him, but in most cases, they will be so grateful for getting in the sack with you, they won't care OR they will love your big exotic lips!
My boyfriend isn't judgemental and I am completely comfortable with him.
There's a few (guys, I assume) quoting silly things like "they'll make you grip tighter" (no they won't!) or spouting immature rubbish, so I felt I should tell my side of things.
There were no internet images to compare myself to back then. I remember wearing really tight trousers in my early 20s and being totally puzzled why my friends found it so amusing. Yes, I was that naive :)
I've never had a negative comment from a lover, ever. In fact, one boyf absolutely LOVED seeing me in tight jeans (I avoided them once I discovered what people could see!). And like a lot of women with long vaginal lips, very tight trousers are painful to wear.
There are no problems with sexual response, as for it making you more sensitive..I've no idea. Though one surgeon quotes, %u201Cany time you make an incision, you have decreased sensitivity.%u201D. Genital surgery isn't something I'd ever consider, unless I was injured.
Trust me, any guy who gets you in bed is just pleased to have you there, and he won't care. And in the unlikely event he does, he's not worth getting intimate with.
PS: Vaginaoplasty (vaginal tightening) is different from Labioplasty, which is the surgery we're focussing on here.
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Here is a link to a place in New York City that provides such services. You may get something out of it by just browsing their site to learn more. Personally, it is a non-issue with me and likely with most men.
http://www.centerforvaginalsurgery.com/
NOT! All women should have shaved cameltoe without long lips! Learn it for good!
you'd be considered lucky in some tribes in Africa.
Girls are supposed to have long labial lips.
And they do all sorts of things to have them.
Mostly, mechanically.
Its believed they make child birth easier, and the sex greater.
Is that true in your case?
anyways back to the subject it is perfectly normal and infact it's what your supposed to have. if you dont like them or if you dont feel right with them go talk to your doctor about it and see if there's anything you can have done about it.
~Grizz girl
i hate it!
it can feel weird sometimes when i walk... do any of you get like that?
and i fold them in...
i hate it.
i feel like a freak.
as for boyfriends! OMG. i'm so scared.
no joke.
and anyone know dane cook?
he made fun of us on stage saying he hates long lips and they're like a high school curtain where you can't find the entrance (which is funny) but still :(
has anyone had the surgery done? please comment! xo
if anyone has long lips can they comment and say whether its all normal, during...
im so scared guys would talk about that stuff.
are you supposed to tell a guy that its... different?
and are they really all different?
xo
i used to be nervous then i just decided whatever its my body im fine with it and i think i look good so who cares
If it makes you feel better think of it this way...guys have a problem with the size of their penises. I've been asked how big is too big and if I like small and a dozen other questions all related to size. Me, personally, I don't have a preference or at least if I do I haven't found it. Some women prefer big some prefer small, long, short, etc.
So when it comes to what men might think...it all depends on the man since it's all about personal preference. Just ignore the ***holes.
Should you be worried? If I was your bf, No. But someone that can be judgemental. Yes.
only i feel more obscure because only one is longer! ahhhh
i really am scared of that! haha. despite all the reassurance. how embarressing.
it makes me so self consious. i never let my boyfriend go down my pants bc i really like him and im scared he will be like wtf you freak. i always go down his before he can go down mine=
i just had my mom make a gyno app for me but i didnt tell her why bc i was embaressed, i hope the doctor does something about it!
okay i have it to. i dont like it, next time i go to my othadonist for birth control im going to ask my doctor about it because she has to look there anyways and i'm embberst to just let her see it. and i dont know why im on birth control because im scared to have sex with it anyways! or to even let the guy go down my pants. but as soon as i get options that wont hurt you i will putt it up here=]
The result; if the guy is judgmental; f**k him, but in most cases, they will be so grateful for getting in the sack with you, they won't care OR they will love your big exotic lips!
My boyfriend isn't judgemental and I am completely comfortable with him.
There were no internet images to compare myself to back then. I remember wearing really tight trousers in my early 20s and being totally puzzled why my friends found it so amusing. Yes, I was that naive :)
I've never had a negative comment from a lover, ever. In fact, one boyf absolutely LOVED seeing me in tight jeans (I avoided them once I discovered what people could see!). And like a lot of women with long vaginal lips, very tight trousers are painful to wear.
There are no problems with sexual response, as for it making you more sensitive..I've no idea. Though one surgeon quotes, %u201Cany time you make an incision, you have decreased sensitivity.%u201D. Genital surgery isn't something I'd ever consider, unless I was injured.
Trust me, any guy who gets you in bed is just pleased to have you there, and he won't care. And in the unlikely event he does, he's not worth getting intimate with.
PS: Vaginaoplasty (vaginal tightening) is different from Labioplasty, which is the surgery we're focussing on here.