losing a best freind http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/ Porn exists in every culture, not just Asian. Seriously, grow up please. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-322467 2009-11-10 18:58:21 Stop, that's racism. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-322466 2009-11-10 18:57:42 Stop being so racist!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-322465 2009-11-10 18:57:20 I'm glad that you managed to sort things out and come out. Ignore some of the stupid comments from above, some people are just childish :D http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-320013 2009-10-30 12:42:29 yes, it is normal..Almost the same thing happened to me too..i told her that i had feelings for her and she was fine at first(she told me she didn't) but then avoided me for a few months saying she needed space. and now it's very on and off for her to even talk to me. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-309442 2009-09-07 16:50:37 Yes it is normal to want some time but your must also remember your friend has no idea why your avoiding her. if shes that good of a friend then shell understand. Its time to come out if your friends have a problem with this then they arent worth your time. pretending to be someone your not is not worth a few friends. Once you do come out youll see that theres a whole new world out there and that world just might be what you need in your life. But try to keep her as just a friend at first she might think your just saying your gay to impress her of she might think that your avoiding her because shes bi. Good luck http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-299179 2009-07-08 14:19:46 I really think that you should tell your friend the truth, you don't honestly know that they wont accept you for exactly who you are, and as for your best friend, tell HER before anyone else, show her that you care, but if you don't think of her in any particualr way tell her that. you don't need something that is just part of who you are to stand in the way of your friends or your happyness http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-296930 2009-06-25 12:51:14 We Have the Same Situation my Friend Told me she was a Lesbian and liked me but unlike you i made out with her. just an experiment but i'm not a lesbian. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-295827 2009-06-19 08:55:18 I totally agree that it's not something you chose any more than you can pick who you want to love. There are situations however (though few and far in between) in which someone has been so deeply scared by the opposite sex and has come to see them as the enemy. In these few situations (though it's not a conscious choice) circumstances can affect your preference. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-288194 2009-04-20 19:44:23 You need to tell her that it isn't her and what she said. Tell her that you need some time to sort out some of your own issues that you're working on. She may not fully believe you until you feel comfortable coming out to her and explain yourself, but she will know that you still love her and don't want to lose her. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-288193 2009-04-20 19:41:56 She's your best friend. She's hurt. At least reassure her. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-279592 2009-01-18 09:22:57 To: MisterGee81 LESBIANS/GAYS/BISEXUALS DO NOT CHOOSE THIS LIFE-STYLE, AND IF THEY DO, THEY ARE NOT TRUE GAYS. coming from a bisexual, i found this extremely insulting. i didn't just wake up one day and say "im gonna like girls today" keep your comments to yourself if you have something mean to say. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-278829 2009-01-08 13:46:27 just talk to her. She needs comfort. Shes going through things like you are and this is the time when someone needs a friend to support and comfort them. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-275394 2008-12-02 08:36:16 let's scissor' http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-273008 2008-11-11 03:28:04 if u still check this after 4 years, EAT HER ALL UP!!!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-270821 2008-10-25 22:14:19 You are the devils child lesbians are disgusting what a shame i hate to be like this but its true such a shame what the world is coming to http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-269427 2008-10-15 11:49:18 Straight, gay, lesbian, bi or like to hump german shepards - Everybody needs friends! Did it occur to you that this girl might have been feeling nervous "comming out" with admitting bi sexuality' In any event, if you are friends - then what dose it Matter' If you feel Comfortable in "comming out" to her then by all means do, but if not, then don't. I expect that sex is not the ONLY thing you two talk about. Friendship is more important than how one gets their sexual jollies. I have a good (male) friend who is - IMOHO - one of the worst (dependent on one's point of view) perves there is - but he is still My FRIEND. Wake up. The Divine Ms. O. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-268965 2008-10-13 08:05:38 you need to talk to her and then tell her y u been acting wierd and tell her your gay than have some wild lesbian sex WOOOOOOH!!! http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-268958 2008-10-13 05:24:06 lmfao http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-266837 2008-09-25 04:56:21 i agree w/ anonymousmouse, you should be eating her box. take pics and send to me... http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-264418 2008-09-06 23:33:34 LMFAO. Yo I swear I just cracked up. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-263506 2008-08-31 00:54:17 asian porn http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-262771 2008-08-27 03:59:01 LOL http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-262712 2008-08-26 22:39:55 Lebanon Lesbians http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-262711 2008-08-26 22:39:45 no you should be eating her box ASAP http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-260509 2008-08-12 22:41:16 OH NIGGA PLEASE. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-72400 2007-03-08 02:52:28 ...I don't find that amusing. At all. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-12039 2006-01-09 13:48:23 so that was why u were avoiding me. why didn't u just tell me strait out. when do u want me 2 cum over so we can have some fun' maybe even get another lesbian and we could have a 3some http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-6176 2005-08-05 06:33:00 id tell her that you are lebion....but tell her not to tell anyone..and u2 could have alot of fun together lol......im bisexual and believe me if my friend was lezbion i would be thinking thank you god!!! lol just do wut u think will make u happy tho http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-3974 2005-06-25 00:59:50 Your friend needs your support. Maybe she knows you're gay too and is actually trying to come on to you. You need to talk to her to sort this all out. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-3662 2005-06-20 19:27:14 I'd like to thank you people for commenting and voting. I've resolved this situation, ie; come out. thank you so much; I just wasn't sure what to do at the time. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-3144 2005-06-14 13:59:21 it is normal to want to be by yourself and think. but, is she a REALLY good friend of your' maybe you need to talk to her instead of to youself so you don't loose a friend. i'm saying you have to 'come out' to her just let her know that you aren't afraid of her or whatever b/c she's bi. you don't want a loose a best friend. i know how important best friends can be http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-3094 2005-06-13 13:42:45 Yes, it's normal to want to take time to sort things out, but I think her confession gave you such a jolt about your own fears of rejection about coming out until you couldn't deal with her emotional needs. But it's very important for you to pull yourself together to support your friend who is feeling rejected right now. After all, if you ever decide to come out she may be the one person among your friends who understand the difficulties and fears you may eventually experience. She is living through that right now. The sooner you go to her, the better - she must be feeling pretty low right now. http://isitnormal.com/story/losing-a-best-freind-623/#comment-2664 2005-05-27 19:42:54