Losing Interest

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Try anal sex, it'll hurt so much you won't be able to lose interest.

i bet the problem (or part of the problem) is with your partner. maybe he's not 'taking care of you' sexually or what not. try talking to him about it. stress that it's not necessarily something he's doing *wrong*, just that there might be something different that needs to be tried. good luck.

Maybe you should get a boyfriend with a bigger c0ck. Me, for example. Come round my crib tomorrow and I will do you right.

It could be that you're self-conscious of your body or your ability, so when it comes time you're more concerned with what you're doing and what you look like than enjoying it.

Or it could be that foreplay isn't long enough. You could try kissing and playing around longer before sex so you're really, REALLY worked up.

Or it could be that he's not that good, OR makes an ugly face. My ex made a horrible face and I'd have to keep my eyes closed because if I saw it, I would lose all interest imediately. *cringe*

For me it was because my boyfriend didn't want to have sex as much as i did, because of drugs/meds etc he lost his labido. I was always wanting, i fancied him like mad, but i never got over the shy stage of our relationship properly, at the begining. we never grew confident together, i was always wanting intimacy, but when i got it i became self concious and concerntrated on him more, and my arousal took a back seat. It seemed that we weren't connecting, and it wasn't entirely satisfying for either of us. This didn't last forever though, eventually we both were into sex at the same time, and we relaxed much more and the more good experiences we had the better it got. we just put too much pressure on ourselves to enjoy it. good luck