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Lost Love=Destroyed life? Or is there hope?
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So I come to fine myself in one of lifes many hardships we all know all to well. My Ex Girlfriend of 3 years (who is 3 months along with my child) Woke up and decide "I dont have feelings for you sorry, bye". Now if that wasnt a slap I find out a week later she already has a new Boyfriend. So this opens up a hole new set of questions that of course wont be answered. So now im suppose to set here and wonder if its my child, If life is worth it, If things well ever be the same, well I ever get to see the baby. All these thoughts running through my head on top of the heart ache makes me wonder how I well ever get through this? I mean is it possibal to take such a emotional blow and recover? Well now that im totaly confused and lost I hope some one can shed a little light on my life. Thanks for reading this story.
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AverageTMcFlannigan (16347)
2008-12-02 09:54:39
I've been seeing a lot of this lately. I've come to the conclusion that good women are very rare. They frequently pull this kind of shit.

Yes, it's possible to get over but only if you're willing to let go. If you keep grasping, you'll continue to be tormented.
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Justalostsoul (18122)
2008-12-03 02:28:18
@: AverageTMcFlannigan
Ya, Im starting to slowly its hard any more it seems. Todays world is very tough to find a good relationship in.
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MisterGee81 (16946)
2008-12-07 15:12:25
Hang in there man time heals all be strong keep yourself busy been through similar situations.You should work on yourself go to the gym go buy some new clothes try to get out there and try not to think of her it will drive you crazy but i understand dont give up you have to be a man..That means going through hard times....i am very sorry and hope you can use my advice
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promises (17158)
2008-12-30 08:28:41
1. To find a woman who isn't as messed up as she sounds look for maybe the small but simple signs.

2. Your ex girlfriend well no matter how good looking she is sounds like she was cheating since she has a new boyfriend within a week of being dumped. Who gets into a new relationship after a week? (Two types of women. The first type want the ex boyfriend to be jealous and come running back or the second a girl who has cheated during the relationship.)

3. Yes you can possibly bounce back my advice is to test if the child is yours though.
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teehee (19010)
2009-05-10 10:16:32
I'm so sorry this all happened to you. But i do believe its possible to get over it. It will take a while but you can do it!

You have a right to know the answers to your questions so try and talk to your ex about them.

You wont be able to wake up and have to pain all gone but it'll get easier to handle and one day you'll be able to look back on this and see how lucky u were to have gone through it and come out the other side stronger. good luck :)
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teehee (19010)
2009-05-10 10:21:35
@: AverageTMcFlannigan
I didn't know that guys thought good women were rare.. I always thought good guys were rare.

Its good that you posted that cos I now know that its not just girls that feel this way so, thanks lol
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housecat (22932)
2009-06-05 15:23:40
Read The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle. Helped me :)
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