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Love fork, my ex or my baby's mama?
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I slept with my X. recently we bumped into one another and everything resurfaced, everything! We hadnt seen each other for 6 years. Till this day I have never met anyone that I cared so much for. I think I'm in love with her all over again, I'm crazy. She has no idea the way I feel about her either.

Here is the problem:
I had sex with her even though I am with another woman, and have been for 5 years. We have 1 child together and plan to move out of state within the next year for school. My Ex has 2 kids, only she is single and I am not. Shortly after "cheating" (I know...I know) I drifted away from my ex cuz we felt guilty, at least, I think thats why. I am afraid that she keeps her distance cuz she doesnt want to help disrupt things anymore than we have. Still I am crazy about her, I think only of her, I'm in love with her an only her. I cannot imagine ANYBODY loving anybody else after knowing her (This is how sick I am!)
What do I do? Do I tell my ex how I feel and leave the mother of my child? or Do I attempt to get over my ex, and maintain our plans? I am in search of insight, in particular, that of a womans although ALL is welcome. Please place yourself in my shoes, and then the shoes of these two women, what should I do? Do I follow my heart or my current relationship? Please help...
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Comments (13)
cabinet70 (4440)
2007-03-14 19:12:41
The trouble is if you break up with someone usually something is wrong seriously. You had a fuck with your ex thats all it was put it behind you and get on with your new life you cannot garuntee any relationship with your ex. It didnt work the first time It wont work a second time
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pooponyou (6485)
2007-03-14 23:25:59
You're a dumbass and need to seek counseling. First of all, you should tell the woman that you're with now that you cheated on her with your ex and see what SHE wants to do from here on out. If she wants to leave you're dumb ass for cheating on her, then I guess you can get with your ex then right? Maybe you should turn gay and go suck on some coc* dude.

You are the scum of the earth that are the reaosn that kids grow up so fu*ked up because they don't have a decent father around in their lives. You need to be a man, be honest with the girl you're with now and see how she feels about the whole situation. Ok, one more time, you're a dumb ass.
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sovlover (6461)
2007-03-14 23:32:57
I think you should ask your ex if she still has feelings for you or if it was just a fling. (I learn a lot from movies) lol
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Wakorious (6600)
2007-03-15 01:53:14
@: pooponyou
Well, you sure poopedonme. It happens, don't put it past yourself either, you may be surprised one day. I'm a great father but ya, I fit into the dumb ass category at the moment.
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rhythmunbroken (6630)
2007-03-15 21:36:45
You just need to think what's best for your child or children. Yes you may love your ex and if you didn't have kids I would tell you to leave your current for your ex. I've been in that situation. But really, you are a father now. You have to think what you want them to grow up knowing. Whatever your choice, you have to do it in a way that is honorable so that your kids will grow up with the right way of thinking.
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Wakorious (6600)
2007-03-16 05:40:26
Ya I remember. We split at the peak of our relationship, she moved out of state while I was stuck at school on scholarship. I couldnt afford to move. We tried to make it work but we were away from eachother years. Thats what makes it so hard.
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MightOfTheMass (6096)
2007-03-16 10:58:46
Stick with your present woman and just shag your ex on the side, you get the best of both worlds then. Just ensure you dont get caught or get your ex pregnant.

To make things even better, try getting a third woman for even more cheating, it would be class having three on the go.
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Knock_It_off (6904)
2007-04-01 01:20:43
You're typically selfish. People make such poor choices to ruin eachothers lives.
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im*in*love (7530)
2007-04-13 15:07:52
I think you sshould stick with your wife, and be a good father. Put yourself in you children's shoes. Would they want you to leave them stranded? You will always seem to distant to you children no matter how close you are to them if you continue cheating on you wife. Your not only cheating on your wife, but you kids, and your cheating yourself out of a good relationship. Be careful. That's my advice to you.
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im*in*love (7530)
2007-04-13 15:11:19
if your old enough to have kids your old enough to protect them and stay with them forever. Your the only ything they have right now. Plus if you ex finds out your married with kids, then I don't think she will want to have a relationship with you.
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kristina_696969 (6736)
2007-04-27 13:48:05
1st can you say CHILD SUPPORT? I am not saying that is a reason to stay togather but think about it!

And, if youreally are in love with your ex and she and you want to get back togather go for it!...Remamberthe old saying thou...the grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence. Be ready for everything to BLOW UP in your face!
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Hairy-stick-nipples (7861)
2007-04-29 15:31:20
kill your curent girl friend, and throw her off a cliff, then you can be with your slutty x. Either that or you become a morman.
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Normality (8124)
2007-05-19 16:41:58
I think you should get away from them both and come out of the closet: Your into beastiality.
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