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I was friends with this guy - he asked me out and cus i like him i said yes! But like a week later i told him i thought it would be better if we were just friends! thing is, now I really miss him. we haven't talked since! I really regret breaking up with him! I don't even know why i did it - he was like my first boyfriend and i guess i just paniced!
I know i was his first girlfriend too - When i said i would go out with him, he said it was the best day of his life!
I miss him so much - I guess i just wanna know that if you've liked someone for ages then go out with them, and then break up - would you automatically not 'fancy' them anymore - or could there possibly be a chance he still likes me!
I do really like him - do you think there's any way he would ever like me again - is sending him a text a reeeeally bad idea?
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Comments (12)
Mimir2 (3348)
2006-12-01 16:46:06
call him up or show up at his doorstep.
NOW.
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-01 16:50:04
Best approach is to speak to him face to face and tell him you would like to see him, it is that simple. E-mail and text messaging are fine for communicating on small matters or platonic friendships but is cold and inappropriate on a romantic level as you can't read exactly what is going on. If he likes you he will see you, there's no time limit when it comes to attraction. Good luck!!!!
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x.princess.x (3703)
2006-12-01 17:32:08
send him the text
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roger49 (3711)
2006-12-01 19:08:17
Go for it. Moving on takes time, it is quite possible and I would even say likely considering that you were his first girlfriend, that he still likes you, but time's ticking away so you better get on it.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2006-12-01 21:47:06
Just call him and say can I come over and explain you were just a bit nervous and you really do like him and arrange to go out
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Jesus-FaLLeN (4652)
2006-12-13 09:24:26
if you cant do it yourself your a pitiful sack of waste
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normmyass (4845)
2006-12-18 21:39:18
Heres an idea, guys are people too. The sooner you learn this the better. I am willing to bet anything he would take you back but you should feel ashamed that you would dump him with out being sure. You probably broke the poor guys heart whether or not he shows or admits it.
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Clair.x (3846)
2007-02-04 08:42:11
Gosh you Sound a bit like me :O
Well Sortah neyways
I Was with this guy a Week later I Couldnt bare everyone asking me if i was going out with him And i got so nervous every day And then i finaly Decided i couldnt deal with it and broke up with him I Regreted it for ages..
He finally Took me back Nd we went out for 2 weeks then He broke up with me :( Just be careful Though Because some do it for revenge and You can get hurt But if u really Like him Phone him tell him What u feal Because in 40 years time You will regret not doing anything :)x
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kgm1996 (7281)
2007-04-13 17:31:08
hey ok here is what you do you love him then don't let him go !!!! :) (go get him )
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Finny3 (8335)
2007-05-26 22:38:44
tell him u just panicked I would problably take you back
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mandy123_ca (8705)
2007-06-05 22:26:56
IF HE REALLY DID EVER LIKE YOU HE WOULD STILL BE WAITING....SO GO AND APOLOGIZE AND LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL...U DONT GET CHANCES NOR GUYS LIKE THIS EVERYDAY!!!
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Jumper (13196)
2008-02-01 15:22:08
Thats the same thing that happened to my gf now i'm dating her. If u don't talk to him he may not ask you out again because we didn'nt talk until one day we decided to and then we loved each other again
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