My girl friend and I have done "making out" for many times.
i havend had sex with her, ill wait till marriage or she allows me to do so, which i already told my gf.
so instead we either make out, does neck kiss, or touch body part.
but after certain amount of times, i lose the excitement and do not enjoy as much as i did in the beginning.
whenever this happens i feel bad cuz i should be enjoying, but i feel like im doing it without emotion or something
its hard to explain.
but whenever i make out with her next day, it feels good again, but it gets kinda "bored" as we do it.. but it refreshes next day.
i hope you guys understand what i am talking about.
is this normal for everyone? i just wanna know
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thats normal.
us as humans have a serain attention sapn.
and once you refesh it its ohhk.for a while.
just mix it up a little like a *hand job* or oral or just watching porn together.
comment my questions plzz.
If you do have sex, then this becomes positive reinforcement, and the "making out" gets a lot more exciting because it's associated with the sex.
I believe it's unnatural and unhealthy to constantly "make out," but not allow that to lead to sex.
so its just progressing.
I didn't like kissing my last girlfriend, don't know why.But i dodn't liked it from a start, and not after a 5 minutes.