Normal? After two millennia of our sexual conduct being orchestrated and controlled according to the ethics of nomadic middle-eastern desert tribesman, whose main interest was in maintaining tribal populations and the subjugation of women, that is hard for us to see. But if an act between 2 (or more!) people is mutually pleasurable, and contributes to our bonding and sharing capabilities without harming others, objectively that would have to be pretty normal. I knew as a boy that I found other men's bodies atractive. At 17 I found out just how good it can feel to have your cock inside another guy, and there were a lot more to follow. I am now 64, and remember many of them like vintage wines! I never took a passive role; always afraid it would make me effeminate. I was in late 30s before I would even try it....but when I did, it wasn't bad at all! Growing older the wish to always be the top guy diminishes. Believe me, it does not make you feel like a girl (unless y'all want to feel like a girl!). Be sensible. Many parts of your body have more than one function. If you are going to use your arse, get to know it a little! Learn how to give it a good hose out, and remember that if you eat eventually the rectum is going to fill up with waste again. Not many people are going to want to fuck an arse full of crap, so learn how to clean and care for it! Use condoms, at least while experimenting with unknowns. Don't become a slave to anal sex, and let just anybody in there! If they can't do it properly, wait for the guy who can. With the right guy, plenty of patience and lubricant, you can find just how well two men's bodies can fit together like they were made for it! Care for your body, and get the best out of it you can. Taking a cock up your arse is an act of trust. Get it right and you won't feel like a 'faggot'. That is just the guilt and self righteous bigotry of history and religion. You will feel like a man enjoying the sensation of another man fucking you, and another way to the little bit of heaven we sometimes can find in life. Respect and kindness are the keys. Not for every man perhaps, but maybe every man should try it once! It would make for a lot less small mind bigotry in this world!
Male on male anal sex
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