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masterbation OVER sex
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im a 18 year old female. i have a super loving boyfriend and hes the world to me. but the problem is that our sex life is going down the drain and he cant make me orgasm. its really NOT that great and i dont wanna break his heart by telling him. i fake my moans and while hes humping me, i picture a sexier man who can make me orgasm in my head, hoping it would turn me on more. i dont know what the problem is, his penis isn't THAT small and he tries so hard to make me feel good. but it still doesn't do justice. im so sexually frustrated because i want to be faithful and not cheat but physical part of a relationship is so important. DAMN ITTT. i can make myself feel OUT OF THIS WORLD by masterbating better than he can ever make me feel lately. when he wants to have sex, its more like a chore to me. i look forward to fingering and rubbing myself more than the company of my boyfriend. what should i do? any comments or suggestions?
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Comments (10)
cabinet69 (3089)
2006-10-04 05:58:07
If it hasnt always been this way then its obvious something is wrong and you have to fix the situation. The only thing it seems you can do is end it with him you have no other choice
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x.princess.x (3703)
2006-10-04 08:00:55
Why don't you try teaching him what makes you feel good, and what doesn't. just show him what you like and tell him you like it this way :)
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yeshellono (7503)
2007-04-13 11:37:19
yeah what the above poster just said.
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leannerules (10856)
2007-09-27 16:53:43
ditto to the 2nd poster
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Exsos23 (11275)
2007-10-21 18:45:18
@: cabinet69
a guy cant MAKE you orgasm, you must just not be interested. when you masturbate does yer sexy hot man hand make you orgasm? no its just a hand...
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Meepo (11537)
2007-11-12 20:00:56
tell him to give u oral sex.
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BlazinChris (3847)
2007-11-22 13:14:10
Don't end it with him, it he is such a "super loving boyfriend" then he should be really important to you
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aldraw (12063)
2007-12-05 03:03:55
Step 1: Show him how you like to masturbate and teach him to do it.

Step 2: Have him do it while having sex

That seems reasonable
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bigdarkie (13047)
2008-01-23 19:16:24
Sometimes girls just get in a rut. They cant orgasm for no real reason. The best cure is to ride a massive black cock (like mine) for a time, till you start coming again, and believe me, you will. oh yes.
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oskilover18 (22167)
2009-04-20 00:34:00
Awww ... sweetie. It took me a year and a half after I first started having sex to actually enjoy it. Ignore all of the comments from men here because this is totally normal - though most women it takes much less time than it took me to start enjoying it. Relaxing is the key to being able to enjoy sex, but there is much more to it than that. (I was drunk the first time I orgasmed during sex and it was with a hot black guy who was big - which helped.) After the first time however size didn't matter too much (though they lie when they say it doesn't matter at all). Most importantly however, everyone is different and some women cannot orgasm at all without clitoris stimulation. Introduce a vibrator and like someone said above TALK TO YOUR PARTNER and TEACH HIM what you like. Only patience and communication will really fix things.
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