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Maybe I don't know what love is...
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I've been in a relationship for a little less than a month. My boyfriend and I have had some complications in the past, but worked through it. I missed him alot right before we started going out because I wasn't talking to him. Now we go out, and my feelings are all TWISTED. Sometimes I hate him for not calling-other times I miss and love him so much when he doesn't call. Sometimes I want to talk with him all day and cry when he has to leave- other times there's less feelings. Sometimes I feel like this is the guy I'm going to marry- other times I want to break up with him...Is this love?
Do you think it's normal?
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sisophous (3738)
2007-02-07 14:12:33
No it is not love. You come across as possessive and controlling, not someone a guy will want to be around long term.

Love is not something that comes about in less than a month of knowing someone, rather it takes time, it is selfless and putting the other person's pleasures above our own. It involves a total commitment to the other and sacrifice.

At this time, your needs are the priority, not his and thus you have the "twisted" feelings and are confused.

Back off, give him space, lower your expectations and your relationship will improve as will your peace of mind.
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crazyme (4954)
2007-02-07 14:45:04
You need to grow up. If you want to keep him then don't think that he need to calls you everyday and see you cry everytime he leaves or has to be with you 24/7. A man doesn't want to do that. They want to have their own time. They don't want to call you everytime they do something. They don't want to call you every day and every night to say good morning or good night. He's your boyfriend not your body guard. If you want to do that, he will leaves you very soon. Most men don't like to have their gf too sensitive.
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roger49 (3711)
2007-02-07 19:01:06
Sounds like typical teenage drama, you're too young and inexperienced to know what love is, what you're experiencing is infatuation.
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DrSham (5677)
2007-03-02 08:52:30
You mad woman.
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clownkiller (9032)
2007-06-24 15:11:07
my gf is like that and im sure it will work out cuz that sounds like real love
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hotchick (3358)
2007-07-25 19:39:31
he dont need to call you 24/7 luv.
thats being a bit obessive , and no offence it should be him wanting to break up with you not you wanting to break up with him....if i was a boy and if i was him i would ditch YOU
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