I have been married for 3 years now but I have a small problem...
My sister inlaw is rubbing her chest on my arms and rubbs her privates on my legs some times as well... but looks at me as if she is doing nothing wrong.
I have a very high sex drive and I am constantly holding myself back from jumping her.
Is it normal for me to want her?
And is it normal for her to be doing these things to me???
Obvious answer to me is no... but I need some advise.
Frankly that you would think about your sex drive first, and not your relationship with your wife, makes me think that it is quite possible that the sister is testing you & suspects that her sister (your wife) made a poor decision.
But who knows.
The highs of having an affair is perfectly normal. However, it's also normal for this kind of situation to get out of hand and go awry. The sex takes control, sister gets jealous and the wife eventually finds out..and then who looks like the biggest c-sucker, ever? You can't be responsible for the sister's actions, however somewhere up north there resides a working brain that will help you work out this dilemma.
No value judgements here..just look at what happens to others in the same situation.
Don't fuck your relatives...
its not okay?
if it doesn't work out fine,the rest of your life is screwed...
Give her a key to your place and get used to her coming over on a whim. THen on one of those days when she is letting herself in, "just" get out of the shower and walk around the house naked "to get your clothes."
If she wants more, she will go for it but if she is offended and so on, just let it go. However, it might not kill you to talk this over with your wife first and have her "hiding" in your house before hand.