Ok so I want to know if I'm not the only crazy one who thinks this is just way bizzare. Ok my sons father met this girl literally 3 weeks ago. Already she has moved into his house. She has a daughter that has been with her father for the past 5 days while she's been with my sons dad. I'm having a baby with my boyfriend of 2 years and even WE are not moving in together. My main concern is my son. I know my boyfriend but dont feel its a good choice right now because although we are having a child im not 100% sure if it is going to work out. Not to mention relationships change when there is a new born and I just dont want my son to be exposed to arguments and drama. For the past 2 years my sons dad has asked me to respect him and not have my son be there if my boyfriend spent the night. Which I never did. 2 years is a long time to be with someone but I feel when there is kids involved taking it slow is the best thing to do. My son is 6 and he knows whats up. So when his dad tell me he is going to move this girl in AND HER daughter I flipped out! Like who does that? I think he is totally not thinking about his son, just himself and his happiness. The same for her. He ex boyfriend already went over to there house and caused drama. Cops got called the whole 9, my son does not need to be exposed to that nonsense. I haven't been letting my son see his dad because of those reasons. Is that wrong? Im not comfortable with her living there and staying over when my son is there. Maybe if they were going out a year and my son kinda knew her but he just got introduced to her yesterday!!!! Is it normal to introduce your kids to a person you met 3 weeks ago? Is it normal to move in with them that fast. Forgive me if I sound negative but I just dont think that this relationship for my sons dad is going to last. So my son shouldnt be thrown into the mix. Is all this normal or crazy???