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Misogynist
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28 Comments

Hey, I'm a 20 year old male. I hate women.

I've been told I'm good looking, I'm fairly intelligent when I apply myself (good GPA, decent college, graduating soon . . .) and I don't suffer from low self esteem or, to the best of my knowledge, any other psycological disorder. However, I really dislike women, almost to the point of hating them. Don't get me wrong, I'm straight, and am still sexually attracted to women. I don't even think that there is a discrepancy between my dislike of women and my sexual attraction for them. I should mention that almost nobody knows this about me, and I excuse my female relatives/friends from my disdain.

I could go into all the reasons why I dislike women, but then this would just be a rant. Anyway, is this in anyway normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (28)
Ooooh buddy, this was probably the worst place to pick to declare your hatred towards women. Gender issues like this are a hugely touchy subject on this site. I suggest, before the sh** hits the fan, you run for your life.
Thanks for the concern, but I mask my IP. ;-)
wow, thats brave as shit. cos the feminist mafia'll but your arse good...
I like girls. And Miso soup.
Hey I'm going to try this Miso soup now. Next time I go to the Sushi King. I really need to expand my cusines, I'm way to white :-(
Pfft... You Hate women? What are you, a douchebag? Women have feelings and boobs... And boobs that I like to feel. You're a douchebag, die plx.
Kudos for using douchebag twice in a post! You're my new hero! Obviously women have boobs. Except the ones with mastectomies. The jury is still out on women having feelings.
If you hate vaginas that only means you love the dick and that you want a big sloppy penis gliding back and forth across your tongue and rectum.
I'm going to go ahead and insult your state, since that makes about as much sense as you calling me gay. Let's start with the debacle that is Cleveland. Remember back in '95 when Art Modell was going to move the Browns to Baltimore? He cited Cleveland's "inadequate" stadium facilities as the reason for their departure. Let me just say, John, that Cleveland's stadium facilities aren't the only inadequate thing in the cultural cesspool of Ohio. In case you didn't catch that, I'm saying you have a small wang. And by small, I mean like a needle.
I'd say that you do have some problems psychologically. Perhaps something has happened to you in the past, were you ever humiliated and/or dominated by women?
I don't know you so I couldn't say but I think you should analyse the reasons as to why you hate women and try to counteract them with reason. Sometimes I think I hate men but a lot of it has to do with societal standards and gender roles.
Anonymous
When I was your age I was having some problems and I started going through the same thing. I got some help and got over it. Chances are you may not even need to see anyone and it's just a phase. It happend to me in college too, I think it was just the women that I was around that did it to me. Keep in mind that you can't group all women in together anymore than you can group all men. Keep an open mind and focus the rage somewhere else, the gym worked for me.
Anonymous
Having very negative feelings toward the opposite sex is often a sign that someone is a sociopath. So you may be one and not realize it (most sociopaths think they are perfectly normal). Get yourself checked out by a mental health professional.
Just for the hell of it, I'm going to suggest maybe you dislike most people. Hey, at least you're not a misogynistic woman. You could be more like me.
Thanks for the last four comments. I don't think I'm a sociopath, but I'm certainly not going to rule it out.

I think that there might be something in what you said about it being the women that I hang out with. I really didn't feel this strongly until I went to college. Anyway, if these feelings to continue I will consider professional treatment. Hopefully it's just a phase.

Thanks all,
Loki
Anonymous
@: Loki
Although this view is certainly not normal, it's completely understandable and one I'm personally very familiar with. I don't know about you, but I personally hate *most* women. At least at the high school and college that I've attended. It's a completely rational hatred as well. I simply hate how most of these women act. They are almost all incredibly stupid and self-centered. It's not really possible to discuss anything remotely intelligent with them. I would say this describes most american women, but that doesn't mean that intelligent women don't exist. It's simply that they're very rare because of the image society forces them to imitate.

Women are taught constantly that all they have to do to be successful is to look good and suck a lot of dick, and this will get them a lot of fun things like "respect" (more like worship) and money. Because of this, this is all they concentrate on and completely ignore "intellectual" topics. The "stupid woman" is what's normal. Just look at the incredibly small number of women going into engineering and the sciences. This isn't because they're "born like that", it's because society tells them to become "nurses" and "housewives", you know, idiots.
look i dont think anyones here to say that women are people. but people (male people) have douches like you. so thus the cycle completes itself
Anonymous
here are my comments
1)on your point of this not being a rant, TOO LATE DUMBASS!!!
2) i am a 20 year old male and i love women. TAKE THAT ASSHOLE
3) i have reviewed many of these queries and have come across many similar scenarios, such as a closet lesbian who is a rightwing conservative. find this post and contact this woman you will make the perfect couple in denial. this is so you can both go home and you can fantasize about your man on man love while she dreams of munching box
Anonymous
I just finished my third year of university and I have not made a single female friend there (I'm female, fyi). Women on campus are often superficial, cloying and completely stupid. If you're basing your opinion of women on those around you, I can see why you'd hate them. However, I do have wonderful female friends and there's no reason for you to hate all women. It does sound like a psychological problem manifesting itself.
How can you generalise all women like that? How many women have you met.It's like saying I hate colour, I hate music its bull###t!! Meet some decent girls you'll see.
Anonymous
You and Skybird would make the perfect couple! I mean, when you aren't bashing one another's gender.

You can't hate someone just because they have different sex organs than you!
From what it reads in your post, you have a labelling issue, tend to likely group people into a single category as either good or bad. You probably do the same thing with race, ethnicity and other categories as well. Young women may be considered self-centered and/or superficial in many cases by many but to take the entire gender and classify them as such is simply wrong, inaccurate, and long term destructive to your own health. A good starting point to make your life easier and others as well, is to use your mind to recall all the positive experiences you've come across with women and to force yourself to rethink each one whenever you begin negative thoughts of women. You do not have to like women at all, but need to quit the negative vibes that predominate your thinking. Hate in any form will consume you from within, acceptance and tolerance is the answer. Make life easier for yourself and make an effort to stop the negative thinking regardless of your past negative experiences. You can't necessarily change society on your own, but you can change your thoughts, patterns and behaviors that will benefit you in the end. Best of luck.
you're icky
why would you hate your own gender? weird, very weird...
Become a women and date men.
If you hate women that much to post it online to a thousand strangers then I'm pretty sure your queer.
Normally I would get angry because I hate ignorant people and people who make stupid generalization, especially when dealing with half of the fucking world population 0_o

But for some reason in your blind fumblings of hatred you seem to have retained your sense of decency. Well done.

I would say maybe you had bad experiences in a series of unlucky chances, maybe some bitch girlfriends or maybe you were teased by angry little teenyboppers... but you would already know that if it were true and you seem to be relatively intelligent.

Or it could be that you simply don't like women. Maybe because they think to differently than yourself, and you have failed to understand different perspectives. Thats your fault and I suggest you open your mind a little more, because your kind of distaste is not normal.
Look, I can understand the way you feel. Its a grudge. You don't really have a reason for it, but it just wont go away.
I know the solution: just try to talk to some of them once and awhile. You may just find you don't hate them anyways.
I hope I dont sound cheesy (especially with the username), but its the truth.
@ Poster

Two words: Ted Bundy.

'Nuff said, bye.