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Miss my ex
88% Normal
7 Comments

My ex and I were together 10 years when he left. That was a year ago. I still think about him every day and miss him so much it hurts sometimes.

Is this normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (7)
of course its normal
people miss the one who is important to them
100%% normal
ever heard the saying "it takes half the time you've been with someone to get over them"? That puts you at 5 years. You're just a year out and 10 years is a looonngg time to really get to know and to get used to someone. It'll be a bit longer before normalcy, but in the meantime go out with your friends, pick up new hobbies, etc. to entertain yourself with.
There is no way it can take me that long. I won't let it. Why should I suffer 5 years when he started dating just 2 months out of it? He obviously left the relationship a long time ago, but didn't have the guts to end it till he had completely let go.
Is it normal to think of him several times a day still?
yeah! of course! time heals all wounds. Get your closure and you'll feel better in no time.
Girl, I hurt for you. I've had crushes but I havent ever been in love i dont think and only had one real kiss on the lips. I never even had a real boyfriend yet (are guys scared of preachers daughters??) . But I know lots of girls that have been in love and when they broke up their boyfriends just act like its NOTHING but it breaks the girls hearts for a long time sometimes.

Almost all of my gfs are christians and their faith in God gets them through a lot of things most girls have a hard time getting through. Just sayin, thats all.

Try to get on with your life even if you are thinking about him a lot. Maybe soon you will start thinking about him less and less. Love and hugs to you........
i am so sorry, comments cant even express. i used to be in a relationship for 3 years which is proulby nothing compared to ten but its been a year, and im still hearting like crazy. they always say that in the end it all worksout and you become stronger. im not quite there yet, but day by day im slowly healing up wonds that he left me in. i cant forget him, and i dont think i ever will. but the best i can do is try to forgive and move on with my life. i hope you can too and wish you the best of luck.

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