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Is it normal if my friend and i treat each other like siblings but i think he wants more? in school i sit next to him and we discuss everything, talk on the phone all night, IM, and are like completely inseperable. i mean my parents even say i need to get a life...we hang out all the time and do absolutely everything together but is he just hanging out with me to get in my pants? btw ive known him for like 3-4 years so is it still weird? hes like my best friend and my friends that are girls think im really weird to go shopping with him instead of getting a mani/pedi with them...thanks
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cabinet69 (3089)
2006-11-05 17:16:57
If your that compatible you might as well let him into your pants even if you only do it onve yous are close enough any it shouldnt affect things
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roger49 (3711)
2006-11-05 17:26:12
It sounds like that could be the basis of a good relationship for you. And if you've got a guy who enjoys shopping with you, you should hang on to him and never let go, because I know I wouldn't be willing to go shopping with you.
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x.princess.x (3703)
2006-11-05 17:55:40
Aww thats really sweet. me and my mate were like that but now he has a girlfriend and i understand things have to change even though it was hard at first. wouldnt you want to go out with someone you are so great with
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Brown_eyed_beauty (4064)
2006-11-05 19:11:00
i agree with cab and princess. hes a great guy and the only thing i dont agree on is wat roger said..." he wouldnt go shoppin with you" my guy goes shopping with me. why wouldnt any guy go shopping with hs girl? My guy really loves Victoria secret!! we buy sexy clothes then go home and i reward his good deed of going shopping with me!- whoa i got off subject there a lil but yea GO 4 it! You seem to sound as if youve been thinkin on it anyhow!
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deamond (5379)
2007-01-23 08:47:09
I suspect he probably wants you but is as worried as you are to actually do anything about it.
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deamond (5379)
2007-01-23 08:49:03
Alternatively, (need more info to be sure of this though) it is possible that he is gay.
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misogynecologist (6137)
2007-03-03 18:59:58
so he's like one of your girlfriends except with a penis. there's a possibility that he prefers man ass, but he's probably just shy. do something blatantly sexual. sit on his lap in a short, thin skirt and shift around a lot. strip naked, walk up and start kissing him. the gods of the socially maladjusted will bless you.

alternatively, since you discuss "everything," you could ask.
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little_white_angel (6940)
2007-04-05 16:30:52
WHO CARES, LET HIM DOWN YOUR PANTS.
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mischiefairy (7321)
2007-04-09 23:41:22
i have a friend like that..we knew each other in high school..met when i was a freshmen. he started acting like your friend a few years later..so we tried the dating thing..it lasted for a day, it was too weird. but we are still best of friends even though he lives in another state...don't worry you'll be fine
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hoopangel (8385)
2007-05-16 19:31:09
Ask Him out
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hoodie (9286)
2007-07-12 02:01:38
climb on
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pi_siren (8070)
2008-01-23 20:00:37
ive heard from most men that a guy just talks to you to get in your pants- any more than that then hes gay.
but i refuse to believe that because ive had great relationships with men without it being sexual. and my current boyfriend and I still continue a great relationship through conversations..
you seem pretty young so it might actually be a sexual thing (guys are just like that at your age)
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funkychicken101 (10986)
2008-01-24 10:49:29
just ask him how he feels about you...if he fancies u and u fancy him then just be like boyfriend and girlfriend, if you've been really good mates with him for years then he probably aint trying to get in your pants
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