Hi, have been in this relationship with a married woman for the last 3 years. She works in the same office and we meet personally at least once a week. In the office we look out for each other and at the same time want our own family lives as well. But for the last little while she has been talking about wanting more from our relationship and I'm afraid that more of a committment would leave us exposed. Has anyone been through similar situation and how do you propose I handle it.