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my bf keeps hitting me!
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i been with my bf for 3 and a half years.during the first 2 years everything was good and i loved him with all my heart and i thought he loved me 2! but after that hes been constantly controlling me , he comes to my house drunk while my mums at work and hits me , not all the time but now and then.hes tearing me in pieces. ive told my friend and she wants me to get help but im too ashamed.every time theres a knock or a phonecall i start shaking incase its him.im still with him and im trapped.i cant end it with him because i dont have a clue wat he'll do to me.all i can say is that im scared.my family keeps asking me how i got bruises and cuts all over m but i just make excuses up all the time.i have to put on a fake smile everyday.i feel theres no way out for me.after my boyfriends hit me he holds me in his arms and says sorry , but i think "its that all you can say"someone plz give me some advice.
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galeni (2821)
2006-08-23 09:26:08
the thing you must do is stop your relationship with him. that is not love and is not fair to you...
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galeni (2821)
2006-08-23 09:29:53
do not hide, ask for help. how he hits you every now and then(i dont believe you, i think is something frequent, but ok...) but things will get worse and worse. do not be ashamed, now is bruises and some cuts, in another 6 months or 1 year it could be worse!
tell your family that you need help, you cant do it alone because you will be affraid of what he can do and just continue with the circle of abuse.
you can go to police too, i am not kidding. now is just bruices, what is next?? and after that? and after that?
i see you just wrote this, so i beg you to ask some one for help. you already wrote this, that is a start, now that you have the will, tell it to someone close to you...
best wishes
galeni
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hotchick (3358)
2006-08-23 10:11:46
plz go and get help.abusive relationships can lead to them murdering you.speak to someone you trust.dont be ashamed , you have nothing to be ashamed about , and its not your fault , if you get help , you can get him outta ya life.
gd luck
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EmoGirlzRule666 (3041)
2006-08-23 15:18:32
If u don't tell someone now, u could get seriously hurt or even killed! Do u know that what he's doing is illegal? If u break up with him and he gets even more angry, you can always go to court and get a restraining order.

Best of luck, EmoGirlzRule666
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CombatCarl (3223)
2006-08-23 16:46:17
Yeah I agree pretty much what all these guys have said to you. Just take their advice because it oculd get worse. YOu made your first step already.

Also a man who just frequently keeps hitting on someone like a woman who many not be a strong or anything, just makes ihm a little boy. Your not a man if you beat on women. I bet he doesn't have the balls to it on a man like that does he? That weakling...
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EccentricWeird (3314)
2006-08-24 00:36:21
Why, I'm sick of all you stupid whiney little kids. When my wife refused to do a damned thing, she would get the strap just like the kids would, and believe you me, I would not hesitate. I'm not gonna stand aside and watch you kids open the back door to them commies and feminists after fightin for fifteen goddamn years in the cold war!
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bigheart (3359)
2006-08-24 07:48:22
thanks everyone for all your advice.at the moment my close friend is helping me through step by step.i just hope its over soon.i no i have to end it with him otherwise it could lead to anything.im also going to tell my family whats been happening as they deserve to know.so im starting it all now and im going to put an end to the violence.thanks alot for all your advice.xxx
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smurph (2483)
2006-08-24 17:47:15
what the hell are yuo doing on here get rid of him call the police do something what do you want me to do type him to death
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emotioninflames (2717)
2006-08-26 06:11:39
LEAVE HIS FUCKIN ASS..he obviously doesnt care THAT much for you if he hits you to the point that you have bruises either get help..or learn to fight and kick his ASS
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jbirdhouse99@hotmail.com (3421)
2006-08-27 18:42:37
Just break up wit ur boyfriend or take him to the court.
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bigheart (3359)
2006-08-28 11:37:35
im still stuck.i tried to tell my family but i just could'nt.i dont think theres nothing i can do , and its something im gonna have to but up with for a very long time.i tried my best to finish with him the other night but he just punched me so i thought there was no use.sometimes i feel like packing my ags and running away.hes even putting me through miserey and i feel depressed.
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bigheart (3359)
2006-08-28 11:38:05
*bags
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