I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months. We live together for the most part...I am under 21 and he is over 21. He definately likes to drink and go out, so that leaves me at home while he's at the bar. Im not worried about what he does at the bar, because he comes home to me everynight and his friends tell me pretty much everything. What bothers me is that he doesn't make time to take me out. I don't expect him to take me out all the time or to spend large amounts of money on me. What I do want though is for him to take me out once in a while to go eat, see a movie, or go to a concert, or even a fight. I love ufc and mma. Anyway, he NEVER takes me out, he says its because I'm not 21 and that things will change when I'm 21. He says he likes bars and doesn't like to go out to eat and see movies. Sometimes, i get really mad at him for not taking the initiative to make me feel wanted, but then i feel guilty because he does try to spend time with me when he is home or at his family's houses. Is it normal for me to be mad at him though?