I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and before we were in a relationship but after I had fallen for him, he came out and told me he was autistic. My mom didn't even believe me because he seems to lack autistic tendencies. He laughs and jokes with my family, plays with my nephews, and can't get enough kisses, cuddles, snuggles, ect. 70 percent of the time we're together we're touching. Not only that, but he makes a lot of money as a photographer and loves raves. With loud music. And he is very romantic. I never forget I'm loved. Is he just not very severe or is aspergers really hard to spot in general?