Is it normal for a boyfriend to be selfish and self interested? He never wants to do anything I want to do and so I'm constantly having to comprimise to make sure he's happy. But if it's something I don't enjoy, then he throws a strop. Everything is always my fault and never his. He seems to think he is always right and I'm wrong. He even expects me to constantly be there for him. However if I need him he wont be there unless it fits his needs.