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My boyfriend lets his friends touch me
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we love each other very much but lately he's let his friends touch me? Like, he has three male friends that always come over and when they walk past me they slap my ass and maybe stop to squeeze it and I just say hey to them cos I don't wanna upset my bf cos I love him so much. But the other night one of my bf's friends said that he wanted to see my boobs. and I just giggled not sure if he was joking or not, but then my Bf said go ahead and show em so I lifted my top up and bra and showed them and they all looked and then I went upstairs. But last night in bed my bf said "think u could suck off me and all my friends?" and I said "maybee" and kissed him. But now im unsure if hes going to set it up .. I love him but i want him to love me too not just see me as a slut who gets her ass slapped and told to get her tits out everydayy, how can i break it to him without hurting him? x
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Floydzcloud
What the fuck, you're his girlfriend not his whore. First of all, you shouldn't let anybody touch you but him. And he showed your boobs too his friends? It sounds like he doesn't respect you as his girlfriend. Second, he said "you should suck me off and all my friends"... It sounds like he doesn't mind sharing you with the world, if he truly loved you he wouldn't be doing this. He has no respect for you as a lady. You should leave him. What's going to happen next? All of them gangbanging you?
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Are you really that stupid?
He doesn't love you. He is using you. Why did u show them your breasts? That is just telling your bf that it is okay for him to treat you like this and confirming to his friends that you are a slut. Either stop the bullshit now or start getting paid for it cause right now you're just a free prostitute.
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Fuck that! I'm a guy & wouldn't be that way with any girl I actually cared about.
Sorry if that sounds harsh...
You need to sit & talk with him, tell him you're not comfortable.
If he gets shiity or whatever too bad. Walk out & find someone who cares about you & wants you just for themselves...
The longer you leave it the harder it will be.
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Your boyfriend doesn't let them... you do!

Dumbass!
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Correction: it is YOU letting them touch you.
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You are a doormat.
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Your boyfriend and his friends are total losers, and you're no better for doing what he says. Any respectable girl would have dumped him in a second. Grow a spine.
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It isn't normal but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. Ask yourself - do you enjoy it when they slap your ass? Does it turn you on to have them think about you sexually? You claim you let them slap and grab your ass because you want to please your boyfriend. It sounds like you are submissive - when he told you to show your breasts you just did it. I bet you liked the feeling of all those eyes on you. Your boyfriend wants to dominate you. It is not an issue of being a slut but exploring your sexual appetites. Both of you will have to walk a fine line because the idea of "normal" will begin to make you judge your actions. You will probably end up breaking up because your boyfriend is new at this and it will end up freaking him out. A true Dom actually uses other men as an extension of himself and they are nothing more than human dildos. Of course not all Doms share their subs but some do and it is just another form of submission. Please update us on how it worked out.
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Echoing sentiments here of the lack of respect he has for you, that's not healthy.

That being said, I can relate a story of a former friend I had who basically thought of his friends as an extension of himself (if that makes any sense). I discovered by accident that at the age of 30, not only does he still masturbate with his buddies, his wife knows he does it and he does it while she is there sleeping in the bedroom and they are out in the living room watching porn and jacking. They have a daughter as well...

What was really surprising was he would share his wife with 3 of his closest buddies on a regular basis. I found this out as well because his wife found me attractive and wanted "try me out". I think what sealed the deal was when I walked in on them one morning and his best buddy was in the master bathroom with the door open taking a huge noisy dump that stank up the whole room, directly in front his wife laying there in bed across from the restroom. It was like walking in on your parents having sex.

I would think as a woman, there would be a point where you draw the line in accepting that level of disrespect from your man. If you are not ok with this now, don't let it escalate because it will.
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Please get Away from this guy, don't be alone with him or him and his friends, and I'd suggest arming yourself with mace or a mini taser, just in case. If he doesn't respect you enough to let you decide who gets to touch you and look at you, it may not stop there.
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@floydz, @girrrl, @shade, YAY! You saved me from having to say anything in depth. Listen to what they are telling you, it is not right for him to treat you like that.
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It's ok to go along with this, but the news you say you are going to break to him is how you feel about it, not whether it is ok. imho you are holding back which is now creating a problem. Don't be afraid to tell him what you think about it, regardless of whether you want to do it or not.
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Screw it, I changed my mind. You should blow them all and let them do what they want to you. You're going to do it anyway.
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Oh honey! You deserve better! He doesn't love you! You should be someones princess, not a groupie! Please find someone better
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Sounds like you are participating with this situation as much as your BF is. If you didn't want his friends touching your ass you would have put an end to it after it happened the first time. That you let it continue says more about you and what you may like. Your BF didn't make you show off your tits, and every girl gets asked to show her boobs one time or another. It's her and your choice to show them or not, regardless who is encouraging you. When you told your BF you might blow them all that was also you. It's not about pleasing your BF, it's about what you want to do or not do. Your BF will still be around if you say no. Sounds like you have been enjoying the attention but now your second guessing. Tell your BF 'no' if you don't want to do it. It's that simple.
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Whores don't get a second chance-
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Please contact me! I need a girl like you lol
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Solution: dump his ass and don't ever talk to any of his friends again because from now on they will always think you're an easy fuck and a whore. You just screwed up your reputation and I really hope you don't continue to be this dumb in the future cause it is fucking sad. Find a new guy who respects you... But it might be hard to find since you're obviously a skank and what kind of respectful guy would like a slut like you?
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dont let him tell you to do that shit so are your boobs nice and big? because if they arent then they like ugly boobs which there would be somehting wrong with them if they liked that
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I wish my bf was like that!!! Well not to that extent but I wouldn't mind him not getting pissed if my guy friends slapped my ass (joking of course)... I don't see the problem with joking around about things like that and my bf takes it all way to seriously =/
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