We are dating for almost three months. Our relationship is becoming pretty serious and I really love him. However I am getting fed up of waiting for sex. The problem is that he has been raped in the past (around one year ago) by a former male friend. We kiss and hug, but each time I put my hands under his clothes he already shivers of fear. We tried to move on slowly, but he always ends up crying or yelling at me. He tells me that I make him feel dirty or that I am disgusting. Eventually he apologizes, yet it hurts. I wonder how long it takes to get ‘cured’ of rape. Perhaps somebody has advice on how to sexually deal with rape victims.