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my boyfriend still sends txt messages to his ex!
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ive been with my boyfriend 9 months now and we love each other. he has always told me he wouldnt cheat on me and ive always believed him until i found he texts his ex sayin he loves her and wants her back. i no he loves me and wants to be with me becuze of the way he treats me and how upset he gets when we argue but would anyone else be insecure about this?
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I was going to answer this serious but after seeing the way you typed it I can tell your nothing more then a child worrying about some stupid highschool relationship. Grow up.
im not in highschool thankx
You can either

A-Get over it

B-Suck my Dick

The choice is yours

-crank dat
you can suck mine too, and i mean that in a good way
The fact he has to say he won't cheat on you makes me think he's questioning it. If he's saying he wants his ex back he either wants to date both of you or he's going to leave you for his ex. I assume he doesn't know you know about the txt, you should do something about it before he hurts you more than he is.
lol thx to some of u u have made my day!
i think he might be confused about how he wants to be with him u might have to ask him who he loves and give him a choice if u txt ur ex back it will be the end of it and will be over .u dont need to feel insecure in a relationship anyways hope this helps good luck
Lol.
I bet hes cyber sexing up his ex.

I would throw him to the curb.
Thanks a bunch for your pathetic time!
he doesnt love you full stop
if youve only been togethor for 9 months youve got no chance in been togethor if hes contacting his ex.

if you want to get a new man lemme know il send my number
Hes a piece of shit you may as well dump him now and get it over with. I would bust him on his text messages. Sounds like he might already be tappin her puss anyways behind your back. Next time he comes in the door I would smell his dick. Don't be surprised if you smell her cooch on his nutz. I hope not but it might happen. Let him have her back and then send a vid of you fucking someone else. See how he feels then. If you think his dick is small now wait till he sees that homemade porno you make.
Dump him. He sounds like an asshole.
poor deluded girl...

just because he treats you well and get upset when you fight doesn't mean he loves you... i do it with my sister, yet i don't love her like a girlfriend...
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i would be very insecure, my ex had a girlfriend & he use to always texting me saying he still had feelings. everytime they broke up we would hangout and when they got together again he contiued to text me saying wed be together in the future. i finally told the girl the truth because it started making me feel guily and i felt like i needed to talk to her to learn my lesson. honestly girl he proly doesnt want her back i believe he loves you but he is just keeping her around as a rebound, or just using her to do sexual things if he really loved her he would have left you by now. but you deserve to be treated better.
Simple way to put it.

HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.

You are his security, his replacement, his comfort zone till he can get his ex back.

You can tell he loves you by the way he treats you and gets upset when you argue?

Him texting his ex saying he loves her and wants her back, is disrespecting you, lying to you, and in a form of cheating on your relationship.

News flash sweet heart, that is treating you badly. He just has learned to keep it from you.

He's a fake babe.

Its kinda like a child molester.
They were nice to be when they showed me the puppy, I just don't know what happened.

I'm sorry, because I know that it must be very disappointing, but find yourself someone who only has a heart for you.
He is obviously laying you ,the reality is he would not text his ex if it was you he was only interested in. Maby he wants his cake and eat it. If she does not return his advances he wat,s you waiting in the sidelines or he is playing you both for some ego trip due to his childish insecurities. While actions do speak alot and he treats you well you do need to talk to him about this and trust me I would be insecure about this ,for two seconds before I dumped his confused ass. You can either find out what is going on or find somebody that deserves you and has only you on his love agenda,you deserve to be number one. Maby when you make him an ex he will be sending the same types of texts to you lol.
I would slap that boy into next week and dump his ass. He doesn't love you. He just wants pussy.
why does it bother if he does so?
he wants get back in his ex's pants as well as hold on to the comfortable stay in urs too.

enjoy life,ur having him when u want to. so just be grateful and not greedy and deprive other people...not necessarily they will be reuniting. u just make it up...our mind preconcieve all this bullshit.


don't see no problems,won't have no tension

its always the way u percieve things
wannarock.....you have a really twisted view on relationships.....

Dump his ass. He'd be two timing you if he could.