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My boyfriend watches big busty porn and I'm small?
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All my boyfriend watches is porn with girls with huge boobs. I notice him staring at girls with big breasts in movies/public and it makes me so uncomfortable. I wish I could play it off but now that I know his "preference" I almost wish I never found out! I am thin and have small perky boobs. He says he loves me, but will only ever watch this type of porn. He even pays for a website exclusive to that "style". My feelings are beyond hurt and I've become super insecure.. Is this normal?
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Personally, I would be more worried about him watching so much porn that he needs an online subscription than the whole boob thing. That, to me, indicates that you don't have his full attention, among other things.
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Agreed
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catywompus
Aww, its ok. You shouldn't feel insecure about yourself because of this. My husband watches porn from time to time and none of those women are like me. I'm still the one he sleeps with and loves, so its ok. I used to despise porn just because I was insecure, then I grew up and now I'd say I watch it more than him sometimes :p
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dwe
Totally normal you feel that way, however better that he acts out his big boob fantasy through porn than by cheating on you. If you take away his outlet he may choose the latter. Tell him how you feel.
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It doesn't neccessarily mean that he doesn't find you attractive. If you had big boobs, he probably wouldn't be as interested in them, because he could get them all the time from you. He wants what he can't get because he can't get it, but that doesn't mean that he isn't attracted to you.

You need to make sure he knows how you feel if you are going to change anything in him. Just come straight out and ask him "If you love me, why do you watch porn of women who look nothing like me?". Only then will he realise that he's hurt your feelings. If he loves you, that should be enough to make him watch it less. If it isn't, try as many ways as you can think of for him to get the message first before you leave him. He almost certainly doesn't even know how you feel.
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People are so weird about porn. It's porn. Dudes like to watch porn and that's normal. Obviously too much of anything is too much, so if he's ignoring you or it's interfering with his non-sexual life it's a problem. But remember he chose you for a reason, and he wouldn't have if he weren't attracted to you. He's going out with an entire person, not just a set of boobs. Maybe he has a preference for big ones and you're the exception because he loves you so much.

If you're super concerned, you should just ask him why he watches so much of this type of porn and tell him it makes you feel insufficient. If he's not a jerk he'll assure you that you're just fine how you are. If he is a jerk, he's a jerk and he sucks and he can take his big tit porn and shove it.
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I think it's pathetic when a guy needs so much porn while with a chick. You should be his sexual outlet 99%.
Get someone better than him.
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Start watching porn that has a guy with bigger penis than he has and see how he feels.
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ParanoiaOrParanormal??
ofcourse your going feel insecure after finding this out, thats normal. If he says he loves you and you believe that, then you have nothing to worry about. However if you are having doubts about this then obviously the relationship is not a healthy one and you might want to consider ending it.
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Talk to him about it. He probably has no idea how he's making you feel.
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Personally, I don't find the need to watch porn when I have a girlfriend. Granted self-love is completely normal, a subscription to a porn website when you have a girlfriend is kind of a red flag for me.

I mean if its making you feel uncomfortable you should probably have a chat with him about it. No one likes to be in a relationship and feel that they are not satisfying their partner.
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I'm small n perky too, fuck him, u probably like a man with features that he doesn't have he's q little boy don't sweat it, thin perky girl FTW against nasty big things that'll sag
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your bf sounds like a dickface
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Yep,it dosnt mean he dnt luv u,bt he jus get twisted by it wen he sees d large chest,e.g me
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Yeah, it's normal. But he's being rude. You should mention it to him, ask him to stop doing it around you.

In fact, why does he need to watch porn if you're around? Porn is for when one of you takes a business trip and, for whatever reason, the other can't go. Just shut the TV off and seduce him next time he does it.
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I feel bad for you. When my boyfriend watches pron it makes me feel very insecure..but I guess it is normal. But about the big boobs thing..I think it's pretty normal for guys to have a feature on girls they like, even if it isn't a feature that you have. I mean, a guy might have a thing for blondes but fall in love with a brunette. I would probably talk to him about dropping the paid subscription to the site though.
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don't worry this much about porn. that's why it's porn, he doesn't love these women and has no relationship with them, it's just a turn-on. i'm not that thin myself and my bf watches these teen porn with these very thin girls all the time. but this doesn't mean he can't love, because i know for sure that he does.
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All guys are going to want what they don't have. That doesn't mean that he is going to leave you. I'm sure he wishes you have bigger boobs, but you have noting to worry about.
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Why the hell is this guy still your boyfriend?!?!? Seriously if you have any self respect you will break up with him right this instant! What a horrible and super perverted boyfriend! You deserve so much better! This guy is disrespecting you and you need to put an end to it.
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