My boyfriend's best friends

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You could try lightening up a bit.

Seems that you have such a wonderful relationship because your boyfriend tries hard to make it so.

Have you considered that, maybe, some of you friends irritate him as his do to you?

Firstly, I'd stop referring to them as "His friends", and think of them as just people he knows, and who maybe, seeing as he's such a great guy (you admit), rely on him a bit to guide them through stuff.

Maybe if you stopped thinking of yourself for just a bit, you might see that your great bf is trying to juggle his time between an insecure gf (you), and his friends.

His time and love aren't exclusively yours. Appreciate that he devotes as much as them as he can to you, and still has time and love for others.

That's a great guy.

honestly i am a very confident woman. i am not insecure what so ever. thank you for your feedback. the people he hang out with, arent good for him. i do not just think about myself. i think about him too, i mean obviously i do. first off the girl wants my boyfriends to be violent and fight other people for her..how is that good for my boyfriend? and the boy my boyfriend is close to, only wants to have sex with other girls and party hard, do drugs, and what not. why would i want my boyfriend to be around certain people like that under those circumstances. i love the fact that he gives me love, but im not thinking of my myself here. im thinking of his best interest. thats why i called them annoying...because they just bring out the negatives. do u not see what i am saying. if they were good, level headed, nice people....then of course i wouldnt mind my boyfriend hanging out with them, and sharing his love and time with them. its just that, if he hangs with him, he puts his life in danger, his health, and his morals.

You sound really controlling, and I hate that that you presume to think you can change him into a "better, more mature," person.