my brother.

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wow he sounds like a real jerk, is he young? it might just be his age and he will grow out of it maybe...hopefully, but that's wrong definitely doing all that stuff to you! have you told your parents what he does?

My girlfriend is also overweight and she has dealth with this kind of crap her whole life. People have done nothing but terrorise her her whole life. She is the most kind and sweet person I have ever known and yet assholes do nothing but tear down everything she has worked for and she ate to overcome the personal hurt that she let in from it.

It was so bad that she never had a good friend until I came along and I gave her a chance. I am glad I did because although her weight really disturbs me, it has been the best two years I have had with another person.
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My points are:
1. It sucks a lot of ass to be around someone like your brother. Your trying so hard to get your life to a great level and you have assholes like him taking from you. When you are practicing on the piano, he has to terrorise you and so on - this will never end. Trust me, I hate my sisters to this day for the shit they did over fifteen years ago and I choose to never have this change. I chose to not like them, its my decision and not anyone elses.

Just bare with it and if he is an overbearing asshole to you, odds are he is to other people and he does not yet realise that his life will truly be unsuccessful in the end.

2. Perhaps this story will get my girlfriend out of her shell and show her why I like this site. It is not for all of those weirdos who enjoy getting rammed by her brother or those who think talking like a moron is cool but for stories like this.

She is still overweight and finally starting to like herself but this is after two long years of teaching her how to love...herself. Perhaps she will read this story when I send it to her today and comment on it.

3. Stand up for yourself. Odds are your parents are useless in dealing with this idiot but it doesn't mean you have to be. If they are not home. Shut the power off to the house via the circuit breaker switch when he is on your computer. (A password would also work, if it truly is only your system, he shouldn't be on it.)

If he is fucking around on a piano to overplay yours, start singing awful when you play. If he is hitting and abusing you, put GAY porn on his directory (If his account is password protected, write back and I will walk you through how to overcome windows passwords.) and turn his ass into your parents.

Lastly, call the police. If the asshole is abusing you, its horseshit to let him continue and you need to get that fucker to stop before he does it to other people as well.
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Both of my sisters are younger and I have never hit them. It is not normal to do so. I hate to say it but it will never change until you do something about it.

Also, you sound like a great person and the one good thing about being overweight is that the better guys will be annoyed by it, but they will look inside to see who you really are. The jerks won't.

Have a good life and now I will try to get my girlfriend to write her ideas on this and because I care for her opinion, she may tear what I said apart if I am wrong.

Sincerely,
Paul

Lastly, I don't know how to vote on this. If I vote 'No' then do I support his awful actions? I support who you are and you are definently not normal, your better than that.

Please excuse the various grammar errors and words used more than once. It is the message I wanted to get out and I didn't want to edit out a feeling I was having. Once again, good luck with dealing with the idiot and it is normal to hate your siblings and also those who don't like you.

Lastly, I wrote in my last post ----

Both of my sisters are younger and I have never hit them. It is not normal to do so. I hate to say it but it will never change until you do something about it.

What I mean't as it is rather confusing is that it is normal to be mad at your siblings and not like them but it is NEVER okay to hurt them.

What a jerk!!

Tell your parents to intervene - he's assaulting & harassing you & it is serious. If they do nothing to protect you, talk to a teacher or go to child welfare. Parents are obliged to parent & provide a safe environment.

Do not let them trivialize this. You have the bruises to show that this has gone way beyond sibling rivalry.

Yes, it IS a big deal. You don't have to put up with that crap. Sometimes siblings can be you worst enemy eh :(?

I hope you find some way to sort him out. You deserve better.