My brother and I are both adults, why would he do this? http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/ Nice dis functional family http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-322611 2009-11-11 10:17:52 You know, our bodies don't actually recognize concepts like "brother" or "sister". What they recognize is "female" or "male". Did you see Euro Trip' There was a scene where the brother and the sister were totally making out and then they happened to open their eyes and they were both freaked out. But before their so-called "parent" took over, telling them it's dirty, it's wrong, it obviously wasn't wrong. It didn't FEEL wrong. Its not like torturing someone while they beg you to stop. It's a matter of accepting that you have parts of yourself that are different from what you imagined. You rise above them. Talking to your brother (and most certainly talking to your parents) is probably a mistake. This has to be approached SIDEWAYS, NOT DIRECTLY. Too many defenses will go up if you approach it directly and nothing will ever work out in a rational and acceptable way. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-316984 2009-10-17 00:49:05 "Was this just a drunken moment or is this just really messed up'" My opinion' If you are not 100% sure he was too drunk to think straight, then I'd say this guy is bad news. Sorry. If he could barely stand on his feet, I'd say 'This is a freak incident. Try talking about it with him, then try to forget it ever happened.' Honestly though. The way you described him during that night, doesn't sound like he was that drunk at all. Also... 9 Beers can make a grown man pretty drunk, so I'm also positive the alcohol had its influence... In my country, we have a saying though... "Small children and drunken people will tell you the truth." Perhaps he showed his true colors' Again, he's your brother. I don't want to demonize him yet, but I would be very, VERY careful if I were you. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-310001 2009-09-10 19:12:20 You have a right to be safe and your parents have a right to expect that for you and other female guests. Your brother violated all of you. He's the one that has/is messed up & is totlally responsible for his behaviour and to change it. However you approach this do not let him off the hook for what he has done and for making changes (boozing being part of the picture, counselling). You have every right to demand appropriate steps from him or blow the whistle. No 2 ways about it. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-309272 2009-09-06 08:16:12 tell your parents and stay away from that fucking creep http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-305494 2009-08-15 22:14:49 so how did everything work out' http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-301012 2009-07-19 21:24:40 Thanks for commenting and joining the site just to comment on my story. I have called my brother and have talked to him about it. I did not tell my parent's. Thank you. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-297082 2009-06-26 12:37:19 Ok. I joined this website to comment on your story. hope it isnt too late. Do not talk to your parents yet. Call your brother. This will be a really uncomfortable conversation, but if you want to salvage any sort of relationship with him then talk to him. If you call him up and he's a jerk then you can talk to your parents. give him a chance to apologize for being a pig first. All guys have screwed up fantasies, but most of us arent dumb enough to act on them. Everyone makes mistakes. Hopefully you guys can get over this. If you tell your parents before you try to talk to him then you will never be able to recover from it. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-296659 2009-06-23 16:52:08 I think you should no matter how embarresed tell your parents about this. I assume your brother had more to drink then he was telling you. How could he want his own sister!'' No offence but still...tell your parents or talk it over with your brother. DO something! dont jus sit there and let it go by. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-brother-and-i-are-both-adults-why-would-he-do-this-29581/#comment-293718 2009-06-04 15:14:56