My daughter is 7 yrs old and when we are around people she doesn't know she won't talk. If we have guests over and she doesn't know them she goes silent. Me and her have our own special eye language to communicate when others are around and she's silent. But her dad hates the fact she won't tak to people she doesn't know, me I have no problem with it. She's normal at school and at home sometimes you can't get her to shut up, but when others come around she's silent.Is it weird that she doesn't talk, I don't think so but her dad thinks its something wrong with her.
In my case I do remember it clearly I think it was the fact I felt overwhelmed and intimidated and scared. I don't know why but thats just my experience but too me it is normal and I don't see a problem with it =)
but how is she ever gonna meet new people of she doesnt talk to knew people?
but hey if she's fine at school she's in the clear :]