My Dream Girl

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toughen up. Prove uve got balls by talking to her. if u dont, ur balls will shrivel and fall off. Then ull have to buy Ball Seeds and grow them back. Be sure they get plenty of sunlight and water them 3 times a day. Happy gardening! ....wait, wtf was i talking about?

Girls LOVE androgyny. Just cut it off. It works 100%% of the time.

Confidence! Ask her how she feels about you, friend or potentially more.

try to be confident, even if you feel like a wimp just go for it, hope it works out for you

As I said to some other guy, don't overload her with presents/letters/crap. Just say it.

Before giving you much advice I would need to know more about your relationship with her. If you have been dating long enough that you are considered by your friends to be a couple, and if neither of you is dating anyone else, you should tell her what you think of her. She wants to know, and she will almost certainly be pleased.

If you are one of several that she is dating, and you do not even know if she is more attracted to you than someone else, it is probably a good idea for you to be more guarded about your feelings for her. Nevertheless, you should make a point of treating her with courtesy, and taking her to nice places.

If you have not even dated her yet, you should certainly not tell her how you feel. Instead, you should consider the possibility that you have projected qualities onto her that she does not have. Ask her out if she seems receptive, but be prepared for disappointment and heartache.

(Needless to say, my insights have been painfully acquired.)

If you do not know this girl very well, it is acceptable to tell her why you love her, but do not tell her that you love her. In other words, praise those qualities that attract her to you. Women love flattery, especially when it is sincere.

Nevertheless, do not tell her of your feelings for her unless you have some reason that she feels the same way about you. If you have been worshipping her from afar, and she hardly knows that you exist, she is more likely to be repelled than attracted if you break the ice by telling her that she is your beautiful obsession.

I wish you good fortune because I think I know just how you feel. I wish I had someone to advise me when I felt the same way.

maybee you should talk to her freinds and then talk to her and then grow some balls and ask her out

Awww, that's sweet, but in my opinion, you should definitely practice saying whatever you want to say, and then over it before you see her; When you see her, go all for it. It also wouldn't hurt to get some advice from your own "guy" friends.

sorry, that wasn't to you Sheep, it was to the situation

Whatever you do, DON'T say "I love you" right out of the bag. Be a flirty friend to her. Joke around with her, meet her after school to do what she wants to do- be it trying on shoes or sitting under the big tree on campus reading. It sounds kind of gay, but girls connect better with guys who can be confident in their sexuality. Only a homophobe would be scared of putting on a girl's shoe. A real guy would put on a shoe and strut his stuff just to be funny. get my point? be fun.

just ask her out... movies and a pizza should do it. from there, move up the social ladder

Kk, got two suggestions (sort of)

A. If you've known her for longer than three-seven days: Tell her how you feel, if it's not recipricated, then take the jab, but take it like a man, women like confidence, not someone who gave too little, too late.

OR

B: if you haven't known her for at least week: You ARE the creepy type of guy that she is afraid you might be, don't do it, and stay away from the sporting goods section, I doubt she likes stalkers.

That's only prove you hold for someone. It's up to you to show your feelings to her. Courage!

You loveeee her! You want to squeezeeee her! So tell her! Don't hold anything in. Whatever you feel let it out, or let it go. This is a chance that might be VERY important for you, maybe she loves you too.

:) Be strong!!

You wont creep her out you big pussy. Your just scared to escalate the situation. Man up, and take action.

XoXo gossip Guy

as the above people have already said, the biggest way to lose the "girl of your dreams" is to not act at all .. and instead run home to your computer and whine about it to a bunch on nameless faces.

Now with that out of the way, just going up to her and professing your love for her won't help you out, especially if you happen to be socially inept or, for lack of a better word, uncool. If you have a dirty appearance, or if your appearance isn't at its best then work on fixing that first. Lose extra weight if you have it, work on having good breath and odor, learn to dress well (sometimes it's like the cool kids, and sometimes it isn't .. but if its gay guy approved then you're a-ok), and learn to be confident.

If you take the time to watch how the most successful guys with women work, you'll easily see that it's their attitudes and confidence that attract girls to them. Instead of going into a few pages of description, just remember to become the guy who knows that his dick is so big, he can have any girl that he wants. This means never ever EVER showing a weak or wussy side of yourself.

Now I've officially accumulated several weeks worth of arthiritic pain into my tiny wrists.. so I'm going to take a pron break. When you read this you should implement the plan as soon as possible. And the MOST IMPORTANT PIECE OF ADVICE THAT I CAN GIVE YOU IS; be like Russell Brand.

Oh just do it! Tell her you love her and ask her out! If you get rejected you tried!

You don't love her. You're just obsessed. Better talk to her before it grows even more one-sided. Each relationship is unique, though, so I can't tell you what to say...

Start small. Tell her something you like about her. Build up. Be sincere and honest. No flattery just compliment.

i dont think im a male model type to say the least, but im dating this chick who is what i call a catch. just find a way to talk to her. sure you'll be nervous, but be friendly, confident and yourself. and dont forget girls LOOOVE to talk about themselves even tho most say they dont, or think they dont

Me too! but I have a different problem and I am only 15.