my friend died

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Absolutely normal. How can people tell you to get over someone who was lose to you? It's not something you "get over". Normal to want to go out with him too. Now that he's gone, naturally you miss him and think of him in ways you might not have thought of when he was still around.
It's been two years for me, and I still haven't gotten over him. (similar experience)

thanks so much

I too think that this is completely normal. It's not right for them to say to get over him. If they don't know him they just can't say that to you. It is also normal to like him even though he is gone, because like Kindy said you might think of him in the ways you never thought about him when he was around still. So yes I think this is normal.

thanks

Your normal kid, take your time the more you obsess about the fact that you think about him, the more your gonna mess yourself up. Something similar has happened to me too, hey I speak to her every night, and I know its just my mind, and that It may sound fucking crazy to you, but it makes me feel good inside, and somehow I hope that I am actually being listened to (on the spiritual side of course).

Your perfectly normal kid, good luck beating the grief no matter how you do it.