My friend is living with her internet boyfriend after 3 weeks! http://isitnormal.com/story/my-friend-is-living-with-her-internet-boyfriend-after-3-weeks-28511/ if i were you, i would be worried too, because, after all she is your friend..but..the thing is..she seems to be willing to live her life concerning only what she and her boyfriend(') want..and maybe it is bad for you to keep your had filled with their problems. in my poor advise..dont let them ake advantage of you, and dont let their situation get to you. it might be hard to try and ignore their problems, but if you dont, you will be uneasy, maybe sad or mad, all the time.. ._. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-friend-is-living-with-her-internet-boyfriend-after-3-weeks-28511/#comment-322680 2009-11-11 18:03:31 you can join the army at 17 . i was in the air force and in my group was a 17 year old who had to have all kinds of waivers and stuff . u can do it if u graduated HS already and have parental permission. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-friend-is-living-with-her-internet-boyfriend-after-3-weeks-28511/#comment-309728 2009-09-09 13:30:53 Yeah, your friend went wayyyy to fast! like seriously..i mean what if she went to meet this guy and turned out he was some rapist or something' and she never came home..If shes doing something like that now, and that relationship doesnt work, who knows what the next guy on there is gonna be like you know'' oh, by the way. you cant join the army until youre 18.. and idk just from what youre telling me his story seems too far fetched. I mean if he was a Prison Officer they make REALLY GOOD MONEY!! The guy must be stupid to leave that..and if he had "such good jobs" in the past, right now he should be having a quite comfortable pay, you know' And for you, i think you are being a good friend, cause i would do the same ( plus im just snoopy ) lol. i like to get to know person, without asking them, if you know what i mean haha.. Eh just keep an eye on him.. Men, are all sneaky i think. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-friend-is-living-with-her-internet-boyfriend-after-3-weeks-28511/#comment-309319 2009-09-06 17:46:07 Thank you :) It's really helpful to hear from someone whos been in a similar situation! They are still together now and as far as I know she is still really happy. Hopefully it will stay this way and if not I'm sure she knows that I am here if she needs me. I have now accepted the relationship and just wish her every happiness. It does make me feel more secure tho knowing that there are situations where people have had the same fears and it has all turned out well! Congratulations btw on your relationship :) http://isitnormal.com/story/my-friend-is-living-with-her-internet-boyfriend-after-3-weeks-28511/#comment-301580 2009-07-23 15:27:22 Speaking as someone who has done the online relationship thing i can tell you that while it works for some .. some it doesn't.I got lucky and met the most wonderful guy and as of September we will have been together for 1 year. My friends back home did the same thing ,worried over the same things you are worrying over . Ill tell you what i told them. as my friend i wish you would support my decision as an adult. I dont need another mommy in my life , if something does go wrong all i need is for you to be there to help me pick up the pieces,but if its not in your power to be able to do that then i understand and wont think any worse of you. -shrugs- thats just my 2 cents worth http://isitnormal.com/story/my-friend-is-living-with-her-internet-boyfriend-after-3-weeks-28511/#comment-301333 2009-07-21 19:09:15 OK thank you. That sounds sensible... I just needed a second opinion to see what other people thought about the situation! I will support her decisions but try not to get so involved myself. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-friend-is-living-with-her-internet-boyfriend-after-3-weeks-28511/#comment-289601 2009-05-04 00:24:33 Sounds like she's an adult and gets to make her own decisions no matter how ill-advised they might be. The fact that she is lying and/or withholding information from you should tell you that you are prying into places where your attention is not welcome. If you want to keep this friendship, you need to back off. It may be that there's just no room in her life for you right now. http://isitnormal.com/story/my-friend-is-living-with-her-internet-boyfriend-after-3-weeks-28511/#comment-289597 2009-05-04 00:10:59