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My friend's fiancé abuses her
So, one of my girlfriends is engaged to a man I really despise. He's one year younger than her, but makes the rules. Everyone in our circle of friends knows he's definitely not good for her, as he abuses her both mentally and physically. He's even cheated on her a couple of times, and she knows this. Every friggin' time this happens, she forgives him. It's your typical definition of an abusive relationship - he does his 'thing' and she forgives him because she's been with him for so long, etc.
What I find weird is, I don't do anything to help her. Sounds bad right? But this isn't normal for me. For example, if I see someone get bullied, I'm the first one to go and defend the victim/face the attackers.
But everytime I hear how my friend's fiancé has (yet again) abused her, I find myself thinking "you deserve it, you b**ch". I think this might be because my friend is not someone I would usually hang out with. She talks sh*t behind people's backs if she doesn't like them, makes fun of disabled, fat, unattractive and/or black people -- something I am very dissapproving of. Normally I would just smack her in the face for being like that, but I can't hit her because I know what happens inside her house.
All her other friends tell her to break up, but she just ignores them. She's my friend also (and what a friend indeed...), but I don't intend to do anything to improve her situation.
This isn't normal, right?
What I find weird is, I don't do anything to help her. Sounds bad right? But this isn't normal for me. For example, if I see someone get bullied, I'm the first one to go and defend the victim/face the attackers.
But everytime I hear how my friend's fiancé has (yet again) abused her, I find myself thinking "you deserve it, you b**ch". I think this might be because my friend is not someone I would usually hang out with. She talks sh*t behind people's backs if she doesn't like them, makes fun of disabled, fat, unattractive and/or black people -- something I am very dissapproving of. Normally I would just smack her in the face for being like that, but I can't hit her because I know what happens inside her house.
All her other friends tell her to break up, but she just ignores them. She's my friend also (and what a friend indeed...), but I don't intend to do anything to improve her situation.
This isn't normal, right?
Do you think it's normal?
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Are u asking if it is normal that she gets abused? (Which I think is what people are responding to).
Or are u asking if it is normal that you feel that way about her?
If this is what you are asking I think most people would agree with you as she does not sound like a very nice person.