recently i have noticed that alot of my friends are taking more and more druges. It was recently one of our close friends 21st and my other friends did really seem to care and didnt really seem bothered with her. I am finding it very upsetting as i have know these people for maybe 10 years and there only seems to be 2 of us not taking anything. I am finding that they are not texting back anymore and we are growing appart. Is there anything i can do that will not insult them?
On the other hand, it's normal for friends to grow apart as time goes on. People move in different directions and it's a normal fact of life, especially after high school.
Don't hang on to these so called friends. Move on with your life.
This happens to almost everyone I suspect, you and your friends relise that your don't have that much in common any more and you start getting different interests than each other, and as much as you used to be best mates, eventually as you grow up you usually start to grow apart.
Find new friends if you can you don't sound like youre into the drug scene anyway.
If you got stuff in your life then don't smoke, cuz it takes up time and energy and money. But if you're not doing jack, then might as well join him :)