MY HUSBAND LIKES PORN !!

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Of course it's normal for him to like and watch porn! Maybe you should try watching it with him to get some new ideas to spice up your own sex life? Or ask him what kinda porn he enjoys so that you can do new things to/for him that'll absolutly blow his mind... Which in turn might make him less want to watch porn coz surely any man would prefer to do it with the Mrs thna just watch someone else having all the fun!

Every guy likes porn, it doesn't mean he will cheat on you. Anymore than it means that everyone who plays grand theft auto are going to become some sort of crime lord, and kill an ambulance drive with a rocket launcher on a jet pack. Why do guys watch porn, well it makes solo time more enjoyable. Why do guys like solo time, because we have higher libidos than women. If he was going to cheat on you, well then he would do that, not watch DVDs. Every guy, instinctually wants to be with more than one woman, any guy who says otherwise is a liar.

When we love someone, we fight instinct, because they mean that much to us, because hurting or losing them is worse than any pleasure an affair can provide. In short, it just means, like every other guy he likes porn, but he still loves you.

I think he could respect your feelings more. I think that is what hurts you.

i know the problem with your husband,i have this problem as well,he appreciates the beauty of the female body,please do not ask your husband to stop watching porn,you have no idea what that would do to people like us lol,and do not worry just because he enjoys the beauty of the female body does not mean he does not love/enjoy your beauty more,but people like us are very sexually driven and need porn,not because we do not love and care deeply and dearly about the person we are with,but because we view the female body as an art form which we are addicted to

long story short your husband isn't a porn freak he is an art lover (but do not worry because he watches porn and sees many different people having sex daily he will be less inclined to have sex with another women I'm not saying he wont because some men are just cheaters but I'm saying because you allow him to watch porn it is very less likely he will cheat on you vs someone who doesn't watch porn)

also SJ has a good point if you watch porn with him it may allow you guys to spice up your relationship...but allow him to watch porn on his own sometimes...because he might be into some fetishes that he doesn't want to try but likes to watch and he could be embarrassed to watch this sort of stuff with you

I like porn. But i am desperately trying to give it up. I believe in equality, and love for all people. I realised (after listening to Noam Chomsky - the World's foremost public intellectual and most quoted living author)that pornography degrades women as vulgar sex objects, and that is not what human beings are. My struggle to give up porn goes on. My greates fear is that i will channel my avarice into a darker method of sexual expression

Men will like porn regardless of age. The only difference between your husband and other men is that your husband doesn't even bother to be discreet about it.

One thing you need to realise, men are hornier than women. That's a fact of life. So everytime you don't want it when he does want sex, he will have to find another outlet. Think about it... men cannot be expected to roll over and go back to sleep whenever they are denied sex by their wives. They will do whatever it takes to relieve this sexual tension.

Porn is a men quality. Though maybe you should satisfy him a little more.

No, ma'am! Quite the contrary. While not being the best thing for you that he watches porn, he does it to keep from cheating on you. All you need to fix this problems is a little spontaneity, just to shake things up in the sack.

Does he treat you differently or not want to engage in real sex after watching porn? Some guys can't handle porn and a healthy relationship. Some can. I, for the most part, can, but I still try not to watch just because I am scared I am secretly damaging some part of my relationship without knowing. But I also overthink everything. Lol.

don't worry mam your husband is perfectly safe and fine.


and he will never cheat you..

becoz many guys like to watch pron but only less man hate to see then but like to have in action..

it is very very normal no problem at all

and it doesn't mean that you are not good but think it as a relief for him and just join to watch the pron movies.



and ask why don't you try that angle practically..

and now see the action i am sure he will soon or later hate to see the pron becoz he will be doing well with you....


don't be happy.


your's friendly,

divx99

but just be horny always



your's friendly,

divx99

Heres my view on this issue. Well if your man is making you feel sad or whatever talk to him about! Be real thats yo man you should free as a bird to talk to him about anything! Thats your Husband and most friends marry their best friend am i right...be and honest about it. What do you have to lose...Don't beat around the bush either tell him straight up and how it is. Honestly i don't like that shit either. when i get a man he is mos def isn't going to be doing that. if he respects you and your feelings then he'd stop. You shouldn't be with a man who hurts you rather than pay attention to how you feel. I mean humans are sexual beings its normal to what to be crazy about sex. But porn is different.. it's a business of hors, sluts, man hores that get payed for doing stupid stuff. If your man is paying for this then thats just nasty its just as similar to a man going trip club to me. Now love making is different its a romanic connection between two ppl not three somes and all that other shit. Porn is just ppl being nasty and putting stuff in their mouth and putting stuff where they shouldn't be and all kinds of other graphic crap from as low to being sexually active with animals. i also think that men who watch porn are homo! why? because they are looking at another mans d-i-cee-k. i mean if a straight man had some random fool come up to him and pull out his d-i-cee-k then there would be a serious problem right? but they can sit at home and watch it on tv n stuff...i don't get it...so weird...but anyways girl just tell your man whats up ya know. and honestly he is looking at other women just cause their in magazines doesn't mean their not real so ya. it might suggest that he lost interest in you and he might have the capability to cheat on you since your not like the girls in the magazines well to me it seems. i mean he obviously shows interest at looking at sluts and hos so does that mean he only dates them too. that doens't seem like you...you seem compassionate and just want respect and love. Your a lover lol its complicated! Some men just to grow some nuts and make REAL L-O-V-E to their women that they love and care about without doing this sketchy shit like looking at slutty hos in the mags and videos. I could understand if it was a single man i guess but when your with someone it should be out the window. Some women don't mind which i find weird but whatever. Every woman needs to know that if her needs aren't being met then he's not the one. Why be sercetly unhappy when you can have someone whos gonna give you 200% of their loyality to you. No real man would want to hurt you. I hope things change for you. if he can't do that one lil thing for you then what else is this man capable of. kinda scary but GOOD LUCK to you.

calm down, watch it with him! he probly wont cheat on you.. if anything you should be grateful its porn hes looking at n not his secretary or something!! just have sex whilst watching porn, guarantee youl both love it. :p

man porn ain't cheating. Obviously if he even has to watch porn there is something that isn't being fulfilled on your part. It's not like he will cheat on you just because he likes to watch porn, he just needs to get his release.. may it be a daily release, or twice a week.. if you guys aren't having as much sex as before... he chooses this. It's a different story if he is the one who opts out of sex and decides to go to the other room and wack off... but if you are questioning why in general he likes porn... he's a man, and us men like to see naked women. Not saying we fantasize about them, we just like naked girls and being able to cum when we want to. simply said

I think you have to separate porn behavior from ordinary sexual behavior with couples. They are too different.

Men are wired differently than women. Sex, or generally interest in women are always on the brain. That doesn't mean that cheating is on the brain. Every guy, and probably every girl too, wants or is interested in what they cannot have. I think pornography is equiviallant to hollywood movies. Sure we like to action and violence or any number of outlandish cenarios, but it doesn't mean that we want to copy that. In closing, I think pornograpy is perfectly natural, and I agree with the other posters, try watching it with him and talking about it. It might just heat things up a bit :)

MEN??!!!??!!!I WATCH PORN TOO!!!!!!

Hm. I think I'm actually going to go and get my toys, and sit down to some porn right meow.