Well i wish that i have a nice mother who care's about me
am 27 acully and here in my country girls don't move out from theree parents house until they get married..
it's not a problem with me
the problem is that my mom keep shouting all the time and say's alot of bad words to me and to weak people like our maid or driver as if they r slave's or something..
sometime's she get mad and take my food and throw it away and keep shotting why is that?
cuz she want to me to go with her to her friend and am so taird to go ,just come back from work or i just want a time to rest.
well i don't really hate my mom but i wish she change her attitude cuz i can't take it any more i just keep crying and looking sad
she's like that sice i was young but she become evil after my dad pass away 10 years ago.
i wish i can live alone in peace cuz here i can't when am at my room she enter shout then say's am ugly go to hell ..
wish i can live in a far place without her
and now we u about to trivle and she said why don't u stay it's better @@but i wanna have fun too i don't wanna stay alone
so i get angry at her and i want to cry, but am going no matter what..
wish i can live inpece omg.
am 27 acully and here in my country girls don't move out from theree parents house until they get married..
it's not a problem with me
the problem is that my mom keep shouting all the time and say's alot of bad words to me and to weak people like our maid or driver as if they r slave's or something..
sometime's she get mad and take my food and throw it away and keep shotting why is that?
cuz she want to me to go with her to her friend and am so taird to go ,just come back from work or i just want a time to rest.
well i don't really hate my mom but i wish she change her attitude cuz i can't take it any more i just keep crying and looking sad
she's like that sice i was young but she become evil after my dad pass away 10 years ago.
i wish i can live alone in peace cuz here i can't when am at my room she enter shout then say's am ugly go to hell ..
wish i can live in a far place without her
and now we u about to trivle and she said why don't u stay it's better @@but i wanna have fun too i don't wanna stay alone
so i get angry at her and i want to cry, but am going no matter what..
wish i can live inpece omg.
That means no arguing. Just do it. And learn to deflect and change the topic or walk away when she gets argumentative. You do not need her permission or approval.
I think she is mostly about being lonely, unhappy and afraid you will grow up. You can be a loving daughter and be independent of her. But you may have to accept that you will never make her happy no matter what you do.
So make yourself happy, and do what you can for your mom without letting her drag you down into her misery.
If she want to be happier, then she has to do something about that herself.
So then, you are stuck living at home with your mother, but her behavior is bothering you?
Most modern women would move out. Especially if things weren't working out with their parents.
You have three choices:
1) Get married.
2) Move.
3) Suck it up and make it work with your mother.
I would feel bad for you if you were a child, but you're NOT; you're a 27-year-old woman. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and focus on what you can do to make your relationship with your mother work. If you truly want to have a good relationship with your mother, you WILL find a way to make it work.
Also, if you expect compassion and kindness from your mother, you should try giving her a little first. Maybe she is lonely and you are all she has.
Of course, her treating you poorly is not fair, but you'd be surprised at how far you could get if you made the first move towards a better relationship. And don't give up if she resists at first, keep trying and eventually you'll break through the wall that is up between you two.
You are clearly an intelligent and open-minded person to realize that about your own Mother.