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My Poor Boyfriend
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My boyfriend and I survived a long distance relationship. We are now living together and I am 4 months pregnant. That's besides the fact, I just wanted to give you a background. So anyways, I HATE to cuddle!! I mean I despise it. I love him dearly but I just can't bring myself to lay on his shoulder and go to sleep. I feel horrible because he says that I ignore him. I feel like just sitting in bed with each other is plenty of affection. I'm not a fan of touching. Am I normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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kitsune16 (24484)
2009-06-20 21:06:17
Thats perfectly normal. I myself am a big fan of cuddling, but I know plenty of people who hate stuff like that, even hugs.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-07-08 04:59:46
Well you did get pregnant. And that involves a lot of intimate touching. So the cuddling you dislike may be pretty specific. I would rarely go to sleep holding my partner - too claustrophobic. Anyway - explore and find areas of physical intimacy that you are comfortable with. You're rightly concerned not to leave your partner feeling ignored.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-07-08 06:23:20
*physical intimacy
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combatgal856 (13140)
2009-08-17 17:02:00
Are you sure it's not because you are pregnant and you're hormones are all over the place and you just want to be by yourself??
]If not then there is something wrong. Cuddles and touching is part of a relationship. You wouldd have not got pregnant otherwise
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