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My sister and I
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I'm a HS senior and have a sister that's 14 months younger. Growing up we were like most siblings: best friends and worst enemies. We played and shared secrets in the good times, and tattled on each other in the bad. I picked on her and she agitated me. Pretty normal kids, huh? But, not surprisingly, in the last few years we've grown distant. I've basically put up with her and she's tolerated me. I've thought she's b*tchy and she thinks I'm a nerd.

Nonetheless, over Winter Break we somehow rekindled our long lost friendship. We laughed, we joked, we talked a LOT, about the future and shared our thoughts with each other about a lot of stuff. We reminisced and had a really great week.

However, things went so well that we probably crossed the line. When we were reminiscing the topic was brought up about how we had played "you show me yours and I'll show you mine" a number of times when we were younger. We remembered how once after seeing shower a scene in an HBO movie, we had made a secret pact that we would take a shower together (we were probably 12 & 13 at the time) a pact which later ended when we got into a fight and she threatened to tell Mom. We remembered that story and well, we were just joking along and she kidded how that pact was still valid even though it's been 4 or 5 years. Of course, I said that she better watch out or I might hold her to it. Neither of us was serious at first, but as the conversation went on we got to the point where we both kinda said "It may sound crazy, but I'd do it if you would." Somehow it had escalated into a sort of dare.

Needless to say, and don't take me wrong because it was harmless, but we ended up taking a shower together. It wasn't sex, we didn't lay a finger on each other and nothing happened. But the fact is that we took a long shower together and really had fun. We didn't mind if we saw each other's bodies at all. We were totally comfortable naked in front of each other and had a really nice time. We've talked about it after the fact and we're both cool with it. We agree that even though we're probably way too old to have played "you show me yours" like that, that it was totally harmless and nothing sexual about it. I think it's possible that if the opportunity presents itself we might actually do it again maybe sometime over the summer. We both really enjoyed sharing that with each other and we'd love to do it again.

Although I know that it may not have been "normal" as the question asks, I'm wondering if it's not necessarily "abnormal" if that makes any sense. I know there are perfectly normal kids that grow up in nudist families and things like that. Are there others that have had similar "harmless" naked experiences with a sibling long after puberty? Please, I don't want anyone to respond with "I had sex with my sister" fantasies ~ this is totally different and they don't apply here, I'm just trying to be serious. Just wondering what others think.
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teamramrod
I thought i was gunna be reading a story about how you fucked your sister, and i read the whole thing , and i was extremely disappointed. thank you, you have succesfully ruinded my night.
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i totally agree with you... i was biting my nails with excitement then after reading it i was like aww man fuck this shit
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Once was normal. i wouldn't try doing it repeatedly. just because it could be a slippery slope. If you accidently did go to far it could damage the relationship. If there was nothing sexual about it then you saw each others stuff and guess what they are going to look the same next time so why bother doing it again? Be careful family relationships can be fragile even though they seem tough. Think of all possible consequences before you make your decision.
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Yes that is just fine... I have a similar relationship with my sis... We played around when we where kids and we still compare breast sizes once and a while... We even had our first threesome together... I'm not saying what ur doing will lead there just that people do alot of things they would never addmit to. As long as it never hurts or strains ur relationship theres nothing wrong with it.
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americans are raised as such scared little prudes. honestly not everything that involves nudity is necessarily sexual. you were most likely just finding a way to become close again and be happy together like you were when you were younger. especially if this is something you used to do often before you stopped being so close. that's a good thing :)
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It's a pity you didn't go further
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They missed their chance
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I think it sounds totally normal. Maybe it's because I'm European? Americans seem much more frigid and nervous about nudity.
Besides, is it THAT horrible to find one's sister somehow attractive? That's what I feel towards my 2-years-younger sister. However the fact that I've touched her boobs a few times and that she's touched mine doesn't mean we're romantically in love or that we're planning to pursue an incestuous relationship. Geez.
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ooooooooooooooook wow what is up with people banging there siblings YOU DONT LET YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS TOUCH YOUR BODY PARTS!!!!
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oh come on if you feel fine about it why do you need our approval :) "normal" is really relevant so do what you feel like doing and just dont give a shit ;)
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Stay tuned for part two "Is it normal that after a shower, we kinda got too comfortable with each other and kinda slept together. But it's not abnormal riight?"

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hahahha lol ...
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my brother is my late-night backyard skinnydip partner and i wouldnt want it any different... he's my bud and theres nothing more to it...we go skinny dipping all the time in the summer and its our little secret no one elses.
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For us, swimming nude is a family affair. We have the luxury of a private yard, where swimsuits are never needed. So, our entire family has been nude with each other forever. Not a big deal
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My sister and I have seen each other naked hundreds of times. She was by my side & cut the cord when my daughter was born and I was there for the birth of 2 of her children. No biggie.
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You should do it again without fear of what others think. However, if things escalate, do not impregnate her, your child could be incurably diseased. I am sure that a lot of people have felt romantic desire for there sibling at some point or another, even those that deny it, so yes, it is normal. You should probably keep such actions secret though, because a lot of people are not open-minded or accepting. On the other hand, think of that Family Guy episode where Donny and Marie Osmond (real life siblings) had intercourse. They seemed to regret, for example, so perhaps it would be best to do like the band Offspring says and "do not pick it unless you can throw it away", in other words, do not commit to action that you cannot take back. This is no game. You cannot revert to your saved file.
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I agree with wholeinwon i have a sister we were 15,13 i was home early sitting on the couch,i was waiting for mum to come out of shower.I was watching this movie,when there was a sex scene and i had an erection i had my hand down in my pants when my sister walk in the door and saw me. She didnt say nothing but when i was about to go in for bath she asked if she can bath with me i didnt have a problem mum said go ahead it good to learn about each others bodies. So we took our clothes. It was first time i seen a girl naked my sis was just beautiful sight still in puberty her breast was had taken shape her leg was curve and smooth i could see just a little hairs on her vagina her libia was closed tight. we talked about each other bodies she was interest alot in my penis so i let her soap it when we were showering gav me an erection but it was fun and made our relationship stronger and trusty.
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I know it isn't sexual but that was hot..
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I don't know about this beingnormal but it's not that over the top.
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Yes, it does apply. Your sexually mature now, and your whole story was a justification. You wouldn't have the need to justify what you're doing if there was nothing more to it(ie your desires). And your neither wrong nor abnormal. Just watch the behavior or you WILL cross then line Hang out long enough in the barber shop, you will eventually get a haircut. Don't judge it. Just get gut level about what's really happening. Good luck!
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pie
When I read your comments, for some reason I end up rubbing myself.
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um it's weird and not normal like you siad, but not necessarily abnormal. if you didn't do anything like incest it's normal. i mean there are locker rooms where random strangers walk around naked! i think showering with your sis is more normal than that! it's good that you guys are comfortable ennough to actually shower together.
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you really habe nothing to worry about.
people that are saying you are weird have just been brainwashed by the typical western way of thinking that sexuality and nudity and all things body related are bad.
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I guess you two were just curious and used the dare as an excuse to see each others nakedness. Not necessarily disturbing but it can be unusual for people with siblings that aren't as close as you and your sister.
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Wow, uhm huh? Yea.. I suppose if you grew up in a family of nudists it might be okay and normal. Not so much though in your case. You are spending to much time denying that you are both attracted to one another on some level.

To me this seems that you are asking for permission to begin an incestous relationship with your sister. I think you need to forget this and move on.

wow.. uhm ya.. you are messed up. If I did this, I would set myself on fire.
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Totally agree (well not the setting myself on fire part - I'd rather do my sister than do that lol). You spend half the thread defending your position - I think you know on most levels it's not normal and are trying to kid yourself. This is the beginning of an incestuous relationship.
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Just because there was a naked female and male together in the bath, does not make it sexual. While there can be a very big temptation, it does not mean they will do anything. Many unlike yourself, have the will power not to have sex. and just because you if thrown into a situation with your opposite sex sibling naked, would sex them up, does not mean that everyone would.
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CousinLover210
yes totally normal
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I would have done it
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this is normal, if you were afraid of showing your bodies to each other because you were scared something sexual might happen it wouldn't be normal.
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there is no problem unless it is sexual
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Sibling win... You guys are like twins, being able to do stuff like like, but still able to control your sexual needs.
In all honesty, I wish I could do that with my sis, but she's a prat :P
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It's normal.
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Oh that's so ok wish I had a bro to do that with
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Well i see my brother naked a lot in the bathroom, even my parents
We dont mind because it has been like that as long as i can remember
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YngPoly
There is nothing wrong with it. Nudity does not equal sex, it isn't even perverse if you like looking at your sister naked. There is nothing so holy, nothing so glorious as the naked human body, male or female. I would go so far as to say it is perverse to deny the human body. I can't stand people who are so insecure as to not be able to honestly say "my sister is beautiful, my mother is gorgeous, my father is handsome, my brother has a great body. Just because you like to admire a body does not make it sexual. Have you ever noticed good looking guys tend to have good looking guy friends but most of them are offense if you suggest that they pick their friend because they are good looking.
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Its normal me and my sister did it because we want to see what it looks like to see somebody naked we been doing this for a long time now she touches me a
Lot more but only have a brother and sister relationship
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Totally normal and beautiful. Here's the proof. You both felt comfortable. That's what matters most. Don't stop. Nothing strange will happen except you will share a closeness others would love to have but are too hung up and neurotic to ever consider. Be best of friends, love each other in a close intimate albeit non-sexual way and let your relationship be thicker than water. Sounds wonderful and certainly should be and is normal. : )
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This seems completely normal, the physical relationship will sustain you as you age. and you will age.

enjoy, and support each other through your lives.
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Just reading these comments oh its hot lol but ya its totally normal I wish I had a bro or sis to explore too.and have someone to do stuff with like tat
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I say next time you play that game make sure she is in front of you in the shower and slip your rock hard johnson into her and fuck the shit out of her!!! make her squirt!
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I wish I could see my sister naked and she could see me :D it will be fun
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I will make sure to taste her pussy and give her a taste of my load :)
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If its totally none sexual and was just a dare thing than that be fine. But the fact that you say you would like to do it again says deep down it was a little arousing and in some way it turned you on. Maybe the whole forbidden fruit aspect. I don't know. But what I do know is its been done and now its over. You should leave it at that and don't do it again.
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..Ew. I don't have a fascination to see my siblings bodies.
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ugh what the f... i have a bro and sis and have never had the urge to see heir bodies that is not normal chief seek help
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It is only seen as abnormal in societies where privacy is an assumption. There are so many other parts of the world where privacy just isn't a part of a family's daily life.
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Ok seriously think in your head why in the hell would you want to see your sister naked? The reason why its YOUR LITTLE SECRET because its wrong, and you need to seek professional help. One day aren't you guys going to want a nice normal relationship with someone else?? And if so how do you think they would feel every holiday or family get together or theres my husbands shower buddy HIS SISTER!! thats insane and sick. I am sorry but you wouldn't catch me in the shower with my siblings or parents. And somebody said its not normal not to want to see your sibilings parts?? WOAH now you must be really fucked up in the head, obviously half of these people have already fucked there sibling so they look for this kind of stuff. Its so disturbing to see these kinds of things. And it is totally socially excepted among MESSED up people. there is a reason its illegal. Ok so if a child molester takes a shower with a child its ok? or a killer brings someone in his house and thinks of how they are going to kill them in the next few days or whatever thats ok? there is a reason why you feel so good about it because its wrong, its a thrill and a disgusting thrill at that. If i was you either go to a counseler or stay away from you sister because you guys need serious help. That will cause you problems in the long run.
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