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My sister and I
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I'm a HS senior and have a sister that's 14 months younger. Growing up we were like most siblings: best friends and worst enemies. We played and shared secrets in the good times, and tattled on each other in the bad. I picked on her and she agitated me. Pretty normal kids, huh? But, not surprisingly, in the last few years we've grown distant. I've basically put up with her and she's tolerated me. I've thought she's b*tchy and she thinks I'm a nerd.

Nonetheless, over Winter Break we somehow rekindled our long lost friendship. We laughed, we joked, we talked a LOT, about the future and shared our thoughts with each other about a lot of stuff. We reminisced and had a really great week.

However, things went so well that we probably crossed the line. When we were reminiscing the topic was brought up about how we had played "you show me yours and I'll show you mine" a number of times when we were younger. We remembered how once after seeing shower a scene in an HBO movie, we had made a secret pact that we would take a shower together (we were probably 12 & 13 at the time) a pact which later ended when we got into a fight and she threatened to tell Mom. We remembered that story and well, we were just joking along and she kidded how that pact was still valid even though it's been 4 or 5 years. Of course, I said that she better watch out or I might hold her to it. Neither of us was serious at first, but as the conversation went on we got to the point where we both kinda said "It may sound crazy, but I'd do it if you would." Somehow it had escalated into a sort of dare.

Needless to say, and don't take me wrong because it was harmless, but we ended up taking a shower together. It wasn't sex, we didn't lay a finger on each other and nothing happened. But the fact is that we took a long shower together and really had fun. We didn't mind if we saw each other's bodies at all. We were totally comfortable naked in front of each other and had a really nice time. We've talked about it after the fact and we're both cool with it. We agree that even though we're probably way too old to have played "you show me yours" like that, that it was totally harmless and nothing sexual about it. I think it's possible that if the opportunity presents itself we might actually do it again maybe sometime over the summer. We both really enjoyed sharing that with each other and we'd love to do it again.

Although I know that it may not have been "normal" as the question asks, I'm wondering if it's not necessarily "abnormal" if that makes any sense. I know there are perfectly normal kids that grow up in nudist families and things like that. Are there others that have had similar "harmless" naked experiences with a sibling long after puberty? Please, I don't want anyone to respond with "I had sex with my sister" fantasies ~ this is totally different and they don't apply here, I'm just trying to be serious. Just wondering what others think.
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Comments (10)
Wow, uhm huh? Yea.. I suppose if you grew up in a family of nudists it might be okay and normal. Not so much though in your case. You are spending to much time denying that you are both attracted to one another on some level.

To me this seems that you are asking for permission to begin an incestous relationship with your sister. I think you need to forget this and move on.

wow.. uhm ya.. you are messed up. If I did this, I would set myself on fire.
my brother is my late-night backyard skinnydip partner and i wouldnt want it any different... he's my bud and theres nothing more to it...we go skinny dipping all the time in the summer and its our little secret no one elses.
I agree with wholeinwon i have a sister we were 15,13 i was home early sitting on the couch,i was waiting for mum to come out of shower.I was watching this movie,when there was a sex scene and i had an erection i had my hand down in my pants when my sister walk in the door and saw me. She didnt say nothing but when i was about to go in for bath she asked if she can bath with me i didnt have a problem mum said go ahead it good to learn about each others bodies. So we took our clothes. It was first time i seen a girl naked my sis was just beautiful sight still in puberty her breast was had taken shape her leg was curve and smooth i could see just a little hairs on her vagina her libia was closed tight. we talked about each other bodies she was interest alot in my penis so i let her soap it when we were showering gav me an erection but it was fun and made our relationship stronger and trusty.
Yes that is just fine... I have a similar relationship with my sis... We played around when we where kids and we still compare breast sizes once and a while... We even had our first threesome together... I'm not saying what ur doing will lead there just that people do alot of things they would never addmit to. As long as it never hurts or strains ur relationship theres nothing wrong with it.
um it's weird and not normal like you siad, but not necessarily abnormal. if you didn't do anything like incest it's normal. i mean there are locker rooms where random strangers walk around naked! i think showering with your sis is more normal than that! it's good that you guys are comfortable ennough to actually shower together.
this is normal, if you were afraid of showing your bodies to each other because you were scared something sexual might happen it wouldn't be normal.
there is no problem unless it is sexual
I know it isn't sexual but that was hot..
ugh what the f... i have a bro and sis and have never had the urge to see heir bodies that is not normal chief seek help
you really habe nothing to worry about.
people that are saying you are weird have just been brainwashed by the typical western way of thinking that sexuality and nudity and all things body related are bad.