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My sister and me
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I'm a HS senior and have a sister that's 14 months younger. Growing up we were like most siblings: best friends and worst enemies. We played and shared secrets in the good times, and ratted on each other in the bad. I picked on her and she agitated me. Pretty normal kids, huh?

But, not surprisingly, in the last few years we've grown distant. I've basically put up with her and she's tolerated me. I've thought she's b*tchy and she thinks I'm a geek.

Nonetheless, over Christmas Break we rekindled our long lost friendship. We laughed, we joked, we talked A LOT: about the future and going to college and we shared our thoughts with each other about a lot of stuff. We reminisced and had a really great week, just the two of us.

However, things went so well that we probably crossed the line. When we were talking about our childhood the topic was brought up about how we had played "you show me yours and I'll show you mine" a number of times when we were younger. We remembered how once after seeing a shower scene in an HBO movie, we had made a secret pact to take a shower together (we were probably 13 & 12 at the time), a pact which later ended when we got into a fight and she threatened to tell Mom.

We recalled that story and well, we were just joking around and she kidded that since we never actually did it the pact must still be valid. Jokingly, I said that she better watch out or I might hold her to it. Neither of us was serious at first, but as the conversation went on we got to the point where we both kinda said "It may sound crazy, but I'd do it if you would." Somehow it had escalated into a sort of dare.

Needless to say, and don't take me wrong because it was harmless, but we ended up taking a shower together. It wasn't sex, we didn't lay a finger on each other and nothing happened. But the fact is we took a long shower together and really had fun. We didn't mind at all if we saw each other's bodies. A week earlier my biggest fear in the world would have been for my sister to see me naked. But suddenly we were totally comfortable being naked in front of each other and had a really good time. In fact, it was really nice fulfilling our curiosities by exploring each others bodies without feeling uncomfortable at all being naked in front of each other.

We talked about it and we're still very cool with what happened. We agree that it was totally harmless and nothing sexual about it. We might do it again, probably over February Recess (when our parents are both at work). We liked sharing that with each other and we'd love to do it again.

I know there are perfectly normal kids that grow up in nudist families and things like that. Are there others that have had similar "harmless" naked experiences with a sibling long after puberty? Please, I don't want anyone to respond with "I had sex with my sister" fantasies ~ this is totally different and they don't apply here, I'm just trying to be serious. Just wondering what others think.
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That is kindof weird, but if there is honestly nothing sexual about it, then its harmless. However, you might want to be careful, because if you spend time with each other naked theres a significant chance that at some point one of you will cross a line out of sheer curiosity and end up living to regret it.
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I must start by commending you on what appears to be an honesty in your tone, and the bravery to share this tale with anyone.

With that said, this new dimension of your relationship with your sister is a very complicated and delicate one. If you both were indeed raised in a nudist family, the situation would be different, and perhaps less delicate, but as you explained, that is not the case.

It is always heart-warming to be able to repair a relationship with a loved one, and for that I am happy for you and your sister. The fact is however, that this rekindling of your relationship seems to be gradually escalating towards a stage that might be dangerous. If both of you experienced no attraction and/or lust towards each other when you took that first shower together, I feel certain that eventually, you will. Biblical rants aside (and ignoring horror stories of deformities abound in in-bred/incestuous births), there can be an infinite amount of emotional and psychological damage caused by this act, if it were ever to get out to the rest of the family or friends and the greater community. Consider this before you proceed further with this flirtatious relationship with your sister.

My suggestion is that you and her sit down and have a frank talk about what that incident means to both of you. If you valued the bond/rapport you were building together by sharing that very intimate moment together...then together, decide upon as minimally arousing an option as possible in which you both can continue to improve your relationship. If however, you both decide that the act of sharing nudity is somehow more meaningful than the risks it guarantees, then you might be in far greater trouble already, than you realize.
best of luck to you!
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don't worry about it. As long you aren't attracted to each other i don't see anything wrong with it. Me and my friend(which i considered a sister)took baths and showers together all the time. No harm done.
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i saw my sisters tits once
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Thats lucky,
i wish i had a sister.
100%% Normal
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I believe you when you say that there was nothing sexual going on. But you need to be careful. Not everyone (including me) will be able to see it from your point of view. If I found out my husband took showers with his sister at the age you are, I would be appalled and probably think about divorce. That's just wrong to me and I don't think many people will relate to you. I just say BE CAREFUL!
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OMG your awesome!!! You disagree and yet managed to actually be polite and helpful! Good for you!


Anyways I have to say that this is fine so long as it isn't sexual. As was said incest is bad because of science and people will not relate because of years of society built taboo. Personally if you were both the same gender or if one of you got it done so you can never have kids I think it would be fine for you to be together, you can even adopt. Thinking of showering or being with my sister creeps the fucking hell out of me and I personally would NEVER EVER EVER do it sorry for being rather harsh just ug chills in my spine. To much taboo drilled into me I guess. But yeah so long as it isn't sexual or if you are prepared for if you get caught its fine. You should make sure you both remain comfortable though so that one of doesn't end up with a mental scar.
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I'm guessing since their game was called "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" that the author is male.
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Nothing wrong with a naked human body.Especialy a female naked one!
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First - Telephone2421, your grampa's a creep.

Second, you're probably pretty normal, but don't get hung up on repeating the scene. Normal once, weird to do it repeatedly. Don't blame you though...
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I must start by commending you on what appears to be an honesty in your tone, and the bravery to share this tale with anyone.

But i do this with my brother but we do touch each other, but not in a naughty way. he only washes my genitals and my neck and i have to wash his wrists and that's it! its only a thanksgiving ritual we made up when we were 15 so don't worry, what you did is not uncommon
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Would you like me as your adopted brother? lol ;-)
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Tht sounds abit one sided, u get. free rub-up and he gets a wrist watch... oh wait its innocent, right... gotcha
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I'm really hard after that
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mate, thats kind of horrible
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your right it was nothin harmful just a shower, and as long as you guy are comfortable with it it doesn't matter if you do it again.


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Ollieo
Well its great that your sister and you reconnected but I do think the two of you need to reflect on the physical boundaries between you and whether, as you say, you've crossed the line. I think you have mainly because you are not that comfortable with this.
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It about time you get a girl friend and explore her.how ever close you are not with you sis man!
Take it as a bad moment and get over seeing and taking bath with your sister. Move on!
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Yeah, I'm still unsure of your gender. If you're a girl, I think it's fine. If you're a guy.. I am not quite sure about how 'normal' that is, so to speak.
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what do you mean by sexual together?
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Who are you kidding? There is obviously sexual tension between you and you want to have sex with her.
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i think you said it your self about other nudest and family's doing the same thing you did as long as it wasn't sexual i don't see how it would be anything wrung.
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First off it would be a LOT of help if u answered all the questions about our gender. Everything would be way clearer!
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I first want to echo the first poster and commend you for your honesty in sharing this.

However, you and your sister are treading a dangerous line. I guarantee if anyone in your family finds out about this, you will both regret it for the rest of your lives.

It's a blessing to have a close relationship with your sibling, but please, keep it platonic. Even if you're determined to not believe the shower incident was sexual, on some level, it had to be. I recommend you sit down and have a heart-to-heart with your sister and make it clear that

(A) you aren't going to do anything like that ever again, and

(B) you're never going to tell anyone about what happened.

Hopefully there will be no lingering awkwardness.
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not normal to me, sorry. you grown up and you shouldnt do that with your sister its not right.
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If you are both from the South, then wanting to do your sister is natural.
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@: oddness
What about the South? I'm from the South. People keep making remarks about Texas, Arkansas and Ala-bama. I don't get it. Why do you think anyone down this way is more likely to want to "do" a relative than anywhere else? Believe it or not, the South does NOT have a monopoly on incest.
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@: ZOR69
Exactly, well said my friend! I is just plain wrong and racist to think the south is different from the north! How rude and appaling of you oddness!
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The word would be prejudice* not racist, racist is descriminating against a RACE. The reason there is a prejudice against the south about incest is from the high rate of incent occurances, though that does not mean that it doesn't take place in other locations and it also doesn't mean that the south is only filled with "incest is the best" mentalities.
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I never had a sister so I will never know if it's possible to get a bone for your sis.
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don't worry i do the same thing and a lot of my fhrends olso does it.
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If you are a girl, than it's fine.
If you are a boy, stop it, it's not normal. She is a girl, you are a boy AND you are siblings.
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That actualy sound really normal and it sounds like you two have a great bond. I envy your sisterhood.
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Godboy
Dude, that's sick.
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that's definitely not normal dude.. serioussssly
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My cousin and I used to do that after we swam at our grandma's house, but her and I never touched each other, and sometimes we'd keep our bikinis on. No harm done.
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Well, it sounds sexy as hell to me. Maybe you and her could share a shower together without getting aroused, but I doubt that I could, especially at your age. Sister or cousin or whatever, the sight of a nude female is a real turn on to a healthy, mature male, unless she is truly butt-ugly, with apologies to the butt. Actually, butts can be among the most attractive portions of the human body, or the ugliest. But if you and she managed to go through with that dare without arousal, the congratulations. That is quite a feat. And no, I don't think either of you is normal, lol.
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Normal totally my sister still see each other naked and we are in our thirties. Nothing like you sister telling you your boobs are saging. If you close its nothing to worry about.
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My brother and I saw each other naked quite a few times. Nothing abnormal about that.
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I see nothing wrong with this, my sister and I used to sit with each other when we bathed. We never bathed together tho. If the 2 of you are comfortable with it, stuff what other people think!!!!! just dont get her pregnant!!
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Are you both girls, or are you male?
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Not abnormal at all. Siblings frequently engage in harmless, non-sexual activity. However, make sure that you maintain a non-sexual relationship with her because a sexual relationship with your sister would definitely not be normal and not appropriate.
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Don't listen to these idiots and holy rollers, all of them assume you had sex with her which is not the case... it is normal to see someone naked... it happens all the time in nudist families, does that make them incest? No it doesn't... what you did was normal. And who defines what is normal and what is not... I am not religious but let he without sin cast the first stone.. though I am not saying this was a sin... And oddness FUCK YOU!!! There are people in the North as well who sleep with close relatives so take your racial ass and do us all a favor and jump off a bridge into oncoming traffic.
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weirdo.
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if you`re a girl its not so bad as they go bathroom together, get changed together etc, but if you`re a boy, thats wrong, so very wrong
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you are so lucky. I wish I could do that with my sister.
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i don't Have a sis but if i would have one and if i would see her naked and she see me naked and we both normal i just wouldnt stare and have just a fukin shower ! i would Fu-ck her if she think its normal to see eachother naked i would just use the moment and Fuk her !!!!! i swear ! my cousin is 15 years old i mean SHE is 15 yrs old and once i peep her in a shower and when i saw her naked i was like standing there and masturbating lol and after that i am often thinking about her and masturbating and thinkin to fuck my cousin thats so weird but shes so HOT i cant do anything lol ! i know thats against rules but i don't care shes so hot i cant not masturbate about her lol!!
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I see no problem in this if, like you said you both took nothing sexual from it, although if it was sexual in any way it maybe be a bit weird. Ask your sister see how she feels on the matter. good look in your further exploration of your relationship with your sister! :)
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How can u do that...It's really horrible

DON'T YOU HAVE ANY GIRLFRIEND
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Budthewise
You're fine. Even if you jerked each other off, you really didn't do anything wrong and you both are fine. Just don't do anything like force her to do... or get her pregnant or ...

Remember, you are both...HUMAN
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I say continue with the showers together, carefully. Discuss taking it a bit further. Offer to lather her up and gently touch her body. Explore eachother and your bodies. Maybe you will both like where it takes you.
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As long as you both are happy and in love, that's all that matters!!!
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I think it's normal, to an extent. If you were still toddlers there would be no problem, but your much older than that.
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i wish i had an elder sister...though i would've been uncool with that nude about that nude bath thing...i mean ok that other people want me to see them naked,or are okay with that, but i can't let others see me naked...me a guy and i dunno why...not even my brother or mother or father or friends have ever seen me without a vest in the least since i was 12
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Ok don't listen to half of these people. What you did, and how you feel is normal. Many siblings act that way and the only reason people think its wrong is because they are prude. Good job growing a pair of balls and accepting it.
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well i think this is normal
well when i was a little itty boy i used to share the bath with my brother so i guess its not that different at all ...
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thats so normal ... when i was little (3-5) me and my brother took baths together all the time ... and im a girl andi think its normal ... nuthing wrong with a guys body in a shower
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i agree
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yea are you a guy or a girl?
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i have done the same thing i really liked it
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not normal at all honey...
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are you a dude?????? still not clear to give opinion!!!!!!!!!
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I kinda dont know what to say, but i dont think its a big deal. I mean u guys are family so you guys are allowed to be comfortable just dont let it turn into anything more. Its nice to have that though cuz then u can ask anything u want about a girls body lol
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Be careful just one wrong move in shower and you endup sharing your Incest Experience over same board.........I think you already have crossed the border line where your bro sis relation have left way back..... you should now become BF GF......and enjoy for rest of your life.......

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qwertyuiop2
Ur insane!
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wait, are u both girls?
or are u a guy?
if ur a guy, it will be kinda weird...and gross.
but since u grew up together and are siblings, since there's no malice to it anyways, i would think it's fine as long as there's no sexual that happened.
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dude, do u know why incest is banned? coz ur kids are likely to have defect or their future kids... think and dont be selfish!
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Eva_Braun88
Gross
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Hmm.. It was normal for me to take showers with my older brother and older sister. It was no big deal when I was in elementary-middle school. My sister is 2 years older and my brother 5 years older then I was.. I think we were 3-5-8 when we first started to take baths our grandmother made us take. We just eventually got use to each other without really thinking about it.


I'm a senior in high school now too and I have younger siblings with me now who weren't with me growing up. I think it would be a little getting use to showering with them but overall it doesn't bother ME, I don't know about them. My little sister who is 15 and brother that's 11, it's not like I'm gonna rape them and violate'em in anyway but they're younger and they've never took a shower/bathe with anyone besides themselves so I'm not sure how they think.

Your parents/family don't know about it and for me, it was accepted and just shrugged off so.. Iono, it feels like there's a little taboo feeling with your sister. I feel that it's really cool that you two get along really well but at the same time, consequences might really hurt the family if you two are caught. You two will understand but the parents, for them to learn you two were keeping something they find so intimate a secret..

It's how you guys feel, if you feel like it's a line you won't cross, your little sister knows it's just a shower and your actions are with the possible consequences, go for it.
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bananabread
I'll join you in the shower to make it a threeway
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That wudnt had happen if i was on ur place :D
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Ah, so many people who think getting a little sister-nooky is just so sick. Tsk tsk! There is that old saying, "don't knock it till you've tried it." But I know incest is not for everyone. If it was, I'm sure there would be even more morons running around, being rude and stupid.
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MyNirvana333
Yeah, that's pretty normal. When I was little, my brother and I would (after my parents were divorced and we were often left to fend for ourselves most of the time) we'd sleep in the same bed, naked, and cuddle each other. Nothing sexual, of course, we were only 6 and 8. It was more to fill the void of not having a mother or father around.
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it took a lot of coarage for you to say all of that and to be honest good for you, i hope you both enjoyed the shower.

Did you have anymore showers?

Did you get a hard on?

I would like to know
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You know...it's really not a big deal. I never took showers or baths with my sisters but I used to with my cousin and best friends. As I got older though, the showers and baths turned into separate showers and baths because we had grown up it was time to do certain things on our own.

I guess only a problem will ever arise if you ever start feeling something more towards her...other than that, there shouldn't be a problem.
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my sister and i shower all the time together- we are 19 and 17... it's fun :) and no we don't do anything weird, just loufa each other's backs
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I agree with billy08 that is pretty horrible in fact it's pretty disgusting
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Well When I Was Nine, I Had A Sleepover With My 2 Friends And We Got In The Tub Together And Bathed. Nothing Wrong With That. Totally Normal :)
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I think it's hot! Do it again and see where things lead. ;)
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iPhilip
I wanna fuck my sister !
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sorry dude .....it is not normal.........
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Well, same for me, when my 15th birthday had come, my 2 months younger sister and my girlfriend had not given me a simple hug also, but when it was night, and my parents were out, two chicks(my girlfriend and my sister were standing naked in front of me, i banged both of them including my sister, my sister gave me a special titfuck and they said that was their birthday gift to me, my best birthday ever.....
My sister had almost got pregnant bcoz of me, but she took the birth control pills at the right time.....Now i fuck her like once in two days(with a condom of course)..she enjoys it like shit.
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do u think its normal if there is intimate relationship between brother and sister?
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may i ask are you attracted to her and please be honest?
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Is ANYONE on this site normal? ANYONE?
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to be honest I will never do something like that Im not criticizing but I respect my brother that I will not even tell them that not even thing about it. someday something will happen between you and your sister because your doing it over and over okay one time may passed because you might have curious but still why doing it again and why not with someone else why with your own family that badddddd....
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It's your life, live it how you want.
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christians and other religions have a common belief that hecking your sister is a taboo, but if you are really a christian who is against this who do you think married the sons and daughter of adam and eve?
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Hey guys I am an Indian girl and got married jus 4 months ago..i came to know this story of my husband that he was in a love relationship with his cousin sister who used to stay at his home.he used to work out of town but every second month he will visit to her for 10 days and they will have maximum sex in those days..i went through his web chat summary in which he and his sis used to had web sex chat and got naked and masturbating to see each other...they had a relationship of more than 2 years..den she got married a year and half ago..they continued this thing after her marriage also..wen I came into his life he left everything for me but his sister was following us and she made me to doubt on him...now my life is hell..i don't knw should I forgive him or not..he is saying he did not do anything after me..he loves me so much and begging for my forgiveness...he is asking for only chance/....but I have seen lot of dirty and sexual chat of them dat I cannot forget...I don't knw what to do...please help me too
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its quite normal i think, as some time my elder brother tried to French kiss me. We hugged and he press my boobs and nipples. but nothing more than that.
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Hmm. I don't know how to feel about that. It's great that you are closer to your sister but showering in together can led to other things. Not saying that it will just saying that it can
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sweetheart, you need God in your life. Divine intervention. Why? Thats not right. You do that with your lover, not a sibling. You obviously know that its not right or else you would not be asking the public whether or not its normal. And you also wouldn't be keeping it fron your parent either.
bye,
p.s.get help.this is NOT normal
p.s.s. go to church and ask the lord for forgiveness. good luck. amen.
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Sigh, another religious retard.
I feel worse for you than for the OP who showers with his sister, which isn't normal by the way if you're older than like 8.
Think about it, you're keeping it as a secret --> not normal.
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