My Step daughter is sexually attracted to me

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She's most likely messed up emotionally because of the breakdown of the relationship with her father, so she's looking for validation off men in other ways, namely flirting with you. Avoid situations alone with her, and if she continues to behave like that, threaten to tell her mother.

This kind of stuff never happens to me.

I'm surprised she hasnt given up yet =/
i think shes getting confused with feelings cos shes 13 and cos she knows ur not her biological dad. You might wanna have a proper talk with her.. and maybe get her mum to talk about the birds and the bee's.

I dont think you should tlk to her about the birds and bee's cos she fancies u and she'll only think of u lol

Yeah just watch "To Catch a Predator". All kinds of stupid men are out there committing the same act you're contemplating.

Talk to her mother pronto, right now, immediately!!! She needs to know and have one great big talk with her daughter about this inappropriate behaviour. You send this girl totally the wrong message keeping quiet about it!

Step way back from this - as part of the discussion with your wife make it clear that you will not be around her daughter alone until this is straightened out.

the title sounds like a porno
anyway i'd say that's normal

You're f-ing crazy. If she is attracted to you, have sex with her. Some other thread was going on about a step-dad molesting a step-daughter, but this seems like a golden ticket to a fun ride. Do it in a room where it would take time for the mother/wife to reach you guys, to help prevent being caught. Just reading that story turned me on.
Do yourself a favour and dig in. It's not wrong, it's natural.

Not normal. She needs help. She could be developing a mental issue. A friends daughter did this to her mom;s boyfriend. She is now an adult and still sexually messed up.

Hold on a second!!!

My last comment made no sense at all. Sorry guys, I'm a bit drunk from a party a came home from.

Sex is a wonderful part of life. It can be mysterious and bizarre by nature. I would actually take advantage if I could trust her in keeping it a secret. Lots of people consider certain sexual acts "sick", but that's a gigantic part of sex. Don't be a closed-minded retard, be sick. Be naughty.

First things first, you need to be completely transparent with your wife immediately. Tell her that you didn't tell her because you didn't know what to do and that you thought it would stop. If you don't tell her, you'll lose everything and you'll screw your life up and your family's. Not telling her already is a big mistake.

If you think that your step-daughter is going to let you have sex with her and then not blow the whistle, then you're mistaken. This whole act is her way of controlling the situation with her father. "Daddy issues" isn't a term for nothing - if she's not trying to sleep with you to get back at her father (what better way to stab him in the heart by letting him know his wife AND daughter are sleeping with the same guy), then she's trying to sleep with you so she can seemingly have some control over a man in her life.

This has nothing to do with sex. She's craving control. She's upset with the situation and is seeking to control it by sleeping with you. This coupled with the fact that her hormones are raging right now is not making this pleasant for anyone. Do not sleep with her under any circumstances, avoid all situations where you are alone with her and get help now with your wife.