About a year ago i started noticing that my step daughter looks at my crotch. Im not small down there and there is always a bulge in front of my pants. Sometimes when she thinks i cant see her she looks at my crotch for a while, or if i walk past her she will look at me then look down at my crotch. She has walked into my room a few times when i been dressing, i would be standing naked and she would glance over and grin. She has already moved out so there is nothing in my room that she needs to get. Personally, i have no problem with girls seeing me naked, im certainly not embarrased by it. I have watched her and noticed she doesnt look at other guys crotches. She is extremely attractive and wouldnt mind getting into her pants but wouldnt do anything to hurt her. Is it normal for girls to look at guys crotches and do they secretly mean anything by doing it?
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is your daughter. ('step' is no excuse.)
Now. Lets put ourselves into perspective for a moment.
This girl's mother divorced you for a reason. That reason, I don't and do not need to know.
Obviously, if you are having sexual feelings and fantasies toward your daughter,
is a good excuse to why she divorced you.
Now, take my advice please, and talk to a therapist, or get some sort of counseling. I would like you to know that these feelings ARE NOT NATURAL and are very unhealthy, towards yourself and your step-daughter.
But, of course, if you do want to make in further moves, I would suggest calling your ex-wife, first, to get permission before you bang your daughter.
Happy life, and good luck to you both.
especially if shes a young lady and her sex drive is developing
don't take it too personally.
and you saying
''She is extremely attractive and wouldnt mind getting into her pants''
is so wrong. your a parental figure. act like one.I'm starting to wonder if your imagining her looking at you because your attracted to her..
What is not normal is your mention of wanting to get in her pants. It's normal to have occasional feelings about family members, especially when they are not directly related by blood, however you sound as if you're waiting for her to say or do something that would give you the opportunity, and that is not right.
It's your responsibility as a parent to offer her the RIGHT KIND of love, education, and experience. It's your responsibility as a parent to educate and discuss things with your daughter without allowing things to get out of your control, and without giving in to any urges you may have. If you can't keep those feelings in check, how can you ever expect her to act appropriately?
you're supposed to protect her, not f*ck her
sicko.
She could just be interesting in the sense of, "What was it that mom saw in him anyway?"
If she does find you attractive she is not very likely to act on it because you were married to someone very close to her. This is the plausible reality. Sorry to dispel everyone's fantasy.
Disgusting.
That means fair game! xD
No seriously. Women fail. Give me another guy any day. Rowr.
I personally believe real incest happens but is actually quite rare although a guy being attracted to a shapely young girl is very common even if she is under age of consent,my partners daughter lives with us and she is a babe,we get on ok and yes i do find her hot,she got a body any woman would die and once or twice she's seen my cock and balls (accidently of course)and was mesmorised! shes only 13 but the consequences of even sugessting some kind of sex fun are to dreadfull to entertain,her mother would end our relationship,i'd lose my home,my family would be deeply upset and prob disown me e.t.c and i dare say her dad would rip my head off!and i could'nt blame them, not to mention my reputation WOULD be permanantly ruined..
so i'l stick to the odd fantasy as i like my life without all the above , although it is hugely tempting!!
if a guy is turned on by a female with a great body it matters not wether she's 30 or 13 ,just dont forget the latter category could ruin your life.for those who do it and the girl is cool with it then lucky you and her.
Interesting how quick the author was to agree with and thank you. Instead of being an enabler you could look at a dictionary definition:
Incest: noun
- sexual relations between people classed as being too closely related to marry each other.
- the crime of having sexual intercourse with a parent, child, sibling, or grandchild.
He is a parent, and she a daughter by marriage. Never mind getting legally technical - something I doubt you are qualified for - while missing the point entirely: there is such a thing as BOUNDARIES and DECENCY.
God would even be on your side! But until that happens--fondling,sex--even between step relatives is still freakish & wrong! Remember Woody Allen?
For a long time after, I never looked at guys the same way again.
However, I was only like 12-13, and certainly was NOT looking for anything sexual. Honestly, stepdads like you who "wouldn't mind getting in her pants," disgust me and give step-parents a bad name. >:(
Hello??
"She is extremely attractive and wouldnt mind getting into her pants"
tbh that made me laugh .. but if thats the case do u really love her mum?
imagine how destructive your life could be if u acted on this. I think you should bite your tongue and tlk to ur step daughter about it. and no matter what she does or how ur feeling DO NOT sleep with her or kiss her.
You'll feel beter after you've done that. trust me!
She's 21? I think that's a bit serious, she is either joking around or is pretty attracted to you.
And she may be of age, and she may want you, but you still shouldn't bang her.
Think about it, is it really worth it?
I mean obviously you are insecure since you have any feelings toward her, since she is showing interest in you.
There are loads of pretty girls out there, and i'm sure some interested in you. If you aren't married, get out there and find them. If you are, seek marriage counseling.
And don't have sex with your daughter. Throwing the word "step" in front of it, and saying "well it's not blood relation" doesn't make it okay. I don't feel my blood from an emotional stand point. But I do feel my family. And I could find out tomorrow that I'm adopted, but that isn't going to change that I'm my parents daughter.
So deary, stop getting off on the idea of banging your DAUGHTER and follow my above advice.
at first i would say she defenantly has the hots for you but after reading the part about you two sharing a bed i can say that its just cuiousity like sometimes i look at my teachers bolged up cotch in my economy class well actually i stare at it all the time its so bolgy but no i am not attracted to him
as a matter of fact i feel like pressing it in so it wont distract me or putting some baggie pants on him cuz its goss.
Either way she is not blood related and she is over 18 so there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
My advice to you would be to simply ask her about it
Nothing asked nothing gained
I have a class of 9 ladies aged between 22 and 46 in a small classroom and I stand in front of them for 3 hours at a time.
If I had a penny for every time one of them looked at my crotch I could retire.
Ok ok, but maybe I'd make an extra few pounds per lesson.
firstly i like your nick, i reckon "normal" IS just a word people use to make themselves feel better about themselves.
secondly, i like your way of thinking ;)